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 When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect?
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When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect?
sometimes.. my ex hubby is one of them |
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No......I like nice people. Nice people like me. Who I dont respect are ignorant miserable jerks...I dont have time for them and IGNORE them.
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No......I like nice people. Nice people like me. Who I dont respect are ignorant miserable jerks...I dont have time for them and IGNORE them. 
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When people are too nice, they are usually up to something & nothing good either..
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Mon 12/15/08 02:16 PM
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You know what they say...
"Its not the kill... its the thrill of the chase". Yeah, I like ALITTLE challange... but not TOO MUCH. |
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It's one of the classic stumbling blocks of keeping a woman's attention. Being overly kind and interested equates dependency for some reason.
I learned a long time ago to stop being super nice to women, even if I would really like to sometimes. It gets you nowhere. |
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Most of the times, I consider myself to be too nice. And think that some have lost respect for me for being that way
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You know, I am beginning to wonder that. It's like some people are turned "on" by negative attention! It's like ANY attention is good to them. I think that a lot of people tend to treat the ones who love and care for them unconditionally, like dirt and the ones who treat them like dirt, they cling to more. Perhaps a bit off topic, but a valid point. It's ridiculous.
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i think thats my problem. i think im too nice and i always get the chicks that take advantage of it. then before u know it u spend too much money and they end up chesating on me. damn i was stupid when i was in highschool lol bitter much i'd say
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too nice is like "too smart"
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It's one of the classic stumbling blocks of keeping a woman's attention. Being overly kind and interested equates dependency for some reason. I learned a long time ago to stop being super nice to women, even if I would really like to sometimes. It gets you nowhere. there is a big difference between being nice and being desperately so |
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Being nice and having self respect and being nice and letting people walk all over you are 2 different things.
Im not completely perfect....or nice all the time and I dont expect others to be either. I like real humans!!! |
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no.
it's better than them being mean. 
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Being to nice does not mean a person is up to no good. There really is nothing wrong with treating people nice or with kindness.
I know the golden rule often refers to those who treat people with respect but really why can't it also refer to those who treat people like crap? |
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It's one of the classic stumbling blocks of keeping a woman's attention. Being overly kind and interested equates dependency for some reason. I learned a long time ago to stop being super nice to women, even if I would really like to sometimes. It gets you nowhere. there is a big difference between being nice and being desperately so i would say i agreee b/c i think most of the time kindness is mistaken for weakness and desperation from the person thats just tryin to show affection |
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It's one of the classic stumbling blocks of keeping a woman's attention. Being overly kind and interested equates dependency for some reason. I learned a long time ago to stop being super nice to women, even if I would really like to sometimes. It gets you nowhere. there is a big difference between being nice and being desperately so Just as there is a big difference between being enough of a jerk to keep a woman's interest and a wife-beater. |
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what is interesting, is when you're the same way to them, sometimes it takes them aback, or they're puzzled. they are used to being in an uphill climb, and i give even ground. for i'm just myself, and need no illusions to be so. they understand then, and are generally appreciative, and if not, i'm just me, and who am i to try to change their minds? that's up to them.
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its possible
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Some people mistake "being nice" as a weakness, and then.. take advantage of you for being nice.
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