and i know i keep posting this but there seems at this point there's this lot of grown boys who like inviting a girl over to say, 'hey, look at my house, these are my toys, check out the double garage, yeah! i've got twin sinks, see my fridge well appointed and yeah and this..

and then there's really not much to say cause YOU weren't a part of those processes. lol

there's no such thing as a bachelor any longer. roles are changing. everyone seemingly independent, but.. still missing 'something' in their life.

is the last thing on their list a barbie doll? to take in and out of her case when they feel like playing?

MAN

i think it comes down to intentions in dating.

honestly when i meet a girl and start a life with her
ya i would love to build the house ground up cause those are the memories your keeping

And when some one buys that house its like there purchasing your memories
and they dont even know how special they were

Wow! A double garage

dbad, that's a nice thing. i guess marriage and true relationships and intimacy aren't for everyone.

just room for another toy, but i love how their eyes light up as they stare and wait for MY reaction..

exactly ak0

OP I am bit confused. I am not sure what age group you are talking about, most of us in our 40's have worked hard for our stuff. I mean I have toys and I am damn proud of them. I know I don't want a Ken to take out of the box and play with now and then I want a life partner that has the same or compatible goals in life as I do.
I can only speak for the men I have run a cross and they don't want a barbie either to expensive of an upkeep for them.

I would love a double garage

..just makes me question what they really want from a female
or can i allow myself to even entertain there is an answer i'd like to hear. are they players or do they just want you to enjoy all that they've put together, or just not that interested in a relationship, know nothing of romantic love.

are you single?

yes, we can all assume with age, we all accumulate things, thats not really the issue im pointing out. these guys have been relatively young and a good bit under forty OR older and still single and lonely.

i didn't mean this post to be about competition or who works harder.

I guess maybe it is just me, but I would love to find a man who has his crap together. A house that is his own, a well stocked fridge, a two car garage, toys, none of that sounds bad to me. Maybe he has all the material things and is looking for someone to share them with.

Would I be impressed by those things? I guess it depends on how he presents them. If he is flaunting them or using it as "bait", then no that wouldn't do anything for me. If he is just showing me to include me in his life, then absolutely.

it'll only keep your car warm, but is your intent right

I think they're good things too. I just sometimes wonder about intentions when it comes to dating.

I do have to say though that it beats the 40 somethings that are living in their mom's basement.

Sounds like a perfect place for a pool table to me.

not necessarily if they've been saving their pennies.

I would love a garage

Does this mean you don't wanna go for a ride on dubz?

build one? unless it's you live in the city

on dubz's what?