Topic: i'm down on dating
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Sun 12/14/08 02:03 PM


You should see my collection of washers and dryers.bigsmile bigsmile


laundry is gooddrinker


I know. It just sounds so dirty when you say...MAYTAG!....or WHIRLPOOL!

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Sun 12/14/08 02:05 PM



laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/14/08 02:06 PM



You should see my collection of washers and dryers.bigsmile bigsmile


laundry is gooddrinker


I know. It just sounds so dirty when you say...MAYTAG!....or WHIRLPOOL!


who doesn't love clean underwear??!

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Sun 12/14/08 02:08 PM




laugh laugh laugh


oh no
rofl

i just canceled my DATE tonight, when you know, you know, right.

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Sun 12/14/08 02:15 PM
oh but he just resurrected himselflaugh laugh

ok, i'm going 1 for 5

still in the game

((((dating))))

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Sun 12/14/08 02:24 PM

oh but he just resurrected himselflaugh laugh

ok, i'm going 1 for 5

still in the game

((((dating))))


I think whatever makes you happy and whatever and whenever you would do something for someone and think to yourself why i am doing this for him/her that is when you should realize maybe i do like or love them and whatever i can do to make them happy you do.

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Sun 12/14/08 02:26 PM

I would love a double garage
ditto...I guess my carport will have to do :banana:

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Sun 12/14/08 02:35 PM


oh but he just resurrected himselflaugh laugh

ok, i'm going 1 for 5

still in the game

((((dating))))


I think whatever makes you happy and whatever and whenever you would do something for someone and think to yourself why i am doing this for him/her that is when you should realize maybe i do like or love them and whatever i can do to make them happy you do.


i dig:thumbsup:

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Sun 12/14/08 02:37 PM


I would love a double garage
ditto...I guess my carport will have to do :banana:


carports are great. they double as party tents

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Sun 12/14/08 02:38 PM


OP I am bit confused. I am not sure what age group you are talking about, most of us in our 40's have worked hard for our stuff. I mean I have toys and I am damn proud of them. I know I don't want a Ken to take out of the box and play with now and then I want a life partner that has the same or compatible goals in life as I do.
I can only speak for the men I have run a cross and they don't want a barbie either to expensive of an upkeep for them.


are you single?

yes, we can all assume with age, we all accumulate things, thats not really the issue im pointing out. these guys have been relatively young and a good bit under forty OR older and still single and lonely.

i didn't mean this post to be about competition or who works harder.


I honestly don't think their having material things matters whether they are single or not. They have had the money and bought some toys no big deal. You have stated that this makes 4 or 5. A suggestion might be to make it absolutely plain you are not interested in what they have, but who they are.
I honestly I have never ran across this problem and since I was widowed at age 25 I don't think age matters either. I am trying to understand but I am not getting it. I would not be impressed with his toys, but yet that would show me that he is hard working and has spent his money wisely. But on the other hand if all he had was plastic and a mountain of debt. I would not be interested.

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Sun 12/14/08 02:38 PM
flowerforyou Hello ak0flowerforyou

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Sun 12/14/08 02:41 PM

flowerforyou Hello ak0flowerforyou


hello mirrorbigsmile

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Sun 12/14/08 02:43 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sun 12/14/08 02:45 PM


flowerforyou Hello ak0flowerforyou


hello mirrorbigsmile
bigsmile I hope your having a good day.flowerforyou Its always nice to see youflowerforyou

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Sun 12/14/08 02:44 PM



OP I am bit confused. I am not sure what age group you are talking about, most of us in our 40's have worked hard for our stuff. I mean I have toys and I am damn proud of them. I know I don't want a Ken to take out of the box and play with now and then I want a life partner that has the same or compatible goals in life as I do.
I can only speak for the men I have run a cross and they don't want a barbie either to expensive of an upkeep for them.


are you single?

yes, we can all assume with age, we all accumulate things, thats not really the issue im pointing out. these guys have been relatively young and a good bit under forty OR older and still single and lonely.

i didn't mean this post to be about competition or who works harder.


I honestly don't think their having material things matters whether they are single or not. They have had the money and bought some toys no big deal. You have stated that this makes 4 or 5. A suggestion might be to make it absolutely plain you are not interested in what they have, but who they are.
I honestly I have never ran across this problem and since I was widowed at age 25 I don't think age matters either. I am trying to understand but I am not getting it. I would not be impressed with his toys, but yet that would show me that he is hard working and has spent his money wisely. But on the other hand if all he had was plastic and a mountain of debt. I would not be interested.


i hear you. i think what i'm getting at is that maybe some are chronic daters or players, their whole setup is there to impress girls. the intent in dating is not always clear to me.

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Sun 12/14/08 02:45 PM



OP I am bit confused. I am not sure what age group you are talking about, most of us in our 40's have worked hard for our stuff. I mean I have toys and I am damn proud of them. I know I don't want a Ken to take out of the box and play with now and then I want a life partner that has the same or compatible goals in life as I do.
I can only speak for the men I have run a cross and they don't want a barbie either to expensive of an upkeep for them.


are you single?

yes, we can all assume with age, we all accumulate things, thats not really the issue im pointing out. these guys have been relatively young and a good bit under forty OR older and still single and lonely.

i didn't mean this post to be about competition or who works harder.


I honestly don't think their having material things matters whether they are single or not. They have had the money and bought some toys no big deal. You have stated that this makes 4 or 5. A suggestion might be to make it absolutely plain you are not interested in what they have, but who they are.
I honestly I have never ran across this problem and since I was widowed at age 25 I don't think age matters either. I am trying to understand but I am not getting it. I would not be impressed with his toys, but yet that would show me that he is hard working and has spent his money wisely. But on the other hand if all he had was plastic and a mountain of debt. I would not be interested.
flowerforyou Thats understandableflowerforyou

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Sun 12/14/08 02:45 PM



flowerforyou Hello ak0flowerforyou


hello mirrorbigsmile
bigsmile I hope your having a good day.flowerforyou Its always nice to see youflowerforyou I remembered something about you today.:tongue:


how long ago was it posted:wink: thanks for playing with me!

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Sun 12/14/08 02:47 PM




flowerforyou Hello ak0flowerforyou


hello mirrorbigsmile
bigsmile I hope your having a good day.flowerforyou Its always nice to see youflowerforyou I remembered something about you today.:tongue:


how long ago was it posted:wink: thanks for playing with me!
happy I remember over a year ago when I joined this site, you were one of the first people I emailed.:smile: Its was before I had any pictures or anything.happy Probably freaked you out.laugh

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Sun 12/14/08 02:50 PM
its intention, intention, intention. does this guy just want to **** me along with whatever other random girls he chooses, or is he interested in me specifically, and is it just for sex or for a more involved committed relationship?

i see, sitka, your point. its not necessarily about material things.

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Sun 12/14/08 02:52 PM





flowerforyou Hello ak0flowerforyou


hello mirrorbigsmile
bigsmile I hope your having a good day.flowerforyou Its always nice to see youflowerforyou I remembered something about you today.:tongue:


how long ago was it posted:wink: thanks for playing with me!
happy I remember over a year ago when I joined this site, you were one of the first people I emailed.:smile: Its was before I had any pictures or anything.happy Probably freaked you out.laugh


i actually don't know what could freak me out at this point but i probably wasn'tflowerforyou and how did i respond? i hope it was a nice day.

and where has our communication gonelaugh

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Sun 12/14/08 02:52 PM

its intention, intention, intention. does this guy just want to **** me along with whatever other random girls he chooses, or is he interested in me specifically, and is it just for sex or for a more involved committed relationship?

i see, sitka, your point. its not necessarily about material things.


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