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Topic: Do you stay or do you go?
SimplyElla's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:13 PM
New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.

no photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:14 PM
there are other 'levels' of a relationship
you don't have to be lovers to be close
friends are awesome
right?

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:20 PM
mmm Sex plays a big part in a relationship..and if it sucks..and there seems to be nothing that you can do to spice it up or make it work..well I would have to say..Adios.

no photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:21 PM

New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.
You first pleaseflowerforyou

SamaraNJ's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:23 PM
Just answered this yesterday in another thread..

If the sex is bad I move on...
It's one of the things that relaxes me and destresses and is just fun... If it's bad Ill be missing a big part of what I what I think is important....

If it's bad because of technique we can work on it..
If it's bad because of laziness... not even trying to work that out....



CATBW56's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:24 PM
a relationship can't be based on the physical aspect of sex. If it's there, whether good or bad if you truely care about that other person you will stick around.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:25 PM
Sex is three quarters of the relationship...cooking is the other quarter.

no photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:28 PM
it still amazes me that people waited to have sex until they were married...

noway

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:29 PM
but is sex not something that keeps the two of you connected spiritually, physically, and well differentiates you from friends and lovers??

sex, to me, is very important and er i dont know i guess if you are with one of the "right" peoples at the time it would not be a problem but simply amazing and what not...

no photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:31 PM
YES YES YES
it is important

if you love the 'significant other' and the sex sucks (no pun intended) BE FRIENDS

SamaraNJ's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:31 PM

a relationship can't be based on the physical aspect of sex. If it's there, whether good or bad if you truely care about that other person you will stick around.



Sure I care about whoever it is.. but I worry about myself and my happiness first... until Im in love and married (yeah right).. I come first...


yeah.. I come first... remember that :wink:

Giocamo's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:31 PM

New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.


I stay...remember...you're only as good as your partner...:smile:

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:33 PM
Ima keep this simple...

Dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.

SamaraNJ's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:33 PM


New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.


I stay...remember...you're only as good as your partner...:smile:


hogwash

some people are just lazy...
or selfish in the bedroom.. or the kitchen.. or backyard.. or wherever it may be... oh the park ...
how about the....

laugh

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:34 PM


New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.


I stay...remember...you're only as good as your partner...:smile:


I completely disagree with that statement... :laughing:

PrinceBerg's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:35 PM
Depends how peachy is peachy.. Is she the greatest girl I've ever had and I want to marry her but the sex is bad?? If so, you stick around n find nice ways to make it interesting & get her skills up. If its not that peachy... Then you go. Why u say? Because if it sucks now, at this age, it might just always suck. And if you plan to take it to the next level, try envisioning a lifetime of corny sex... Weigh in on how peachy is "peachy" and you have your answer right there.PC.

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:37 PM


New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.


I stay...remember...you're only as good as your partner...:smile:


Yeah this is no good. What if your partner likes to get freaky in bed and your just a boring missionary style person?


It may be good for you...but your partner is getting bored more each time.

SamaraNJ's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:41 PM



New relationship couple months into that is all.
Everything is just peachy but the sex just doesnt do it for you, at all.
Do you stay or do you go?
How important is the sex really in a relationship to you.
Thanks.


I stay...remember...you're only as good as your partner...:smile:


Yeah this is no good. What if your partner likes to get freaky in bed and your just a boring missionary style person?


It may be good for you...but your partner is getting bored more each time.



hmmm... what's missionary? I should try that sometime..

laugh

krupa's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:43 PM
Damnit! I thought that this was about my favorite "The Clash" song....

If I am not having sex...then I am just hanging out with a friend.

If I am with my love...you can damn well believe that someone is gonna get thier cookies!

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:43 PM
Lol...its fun if your trying to make babyies but thats about it.

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