Feel the same emotions when they're in love? Think the same thoughts?
Have the same hopes, dreams and fears?

I would think so, cuz we're both human. I think we may process thoughts
a bit differently but when it comes down to it, we all "feel" the same,
otherwise, how would we be able to relate to each other at all?

Discuss amongst yourselves.

I'm too verklempt.

I think we do. We express our emotions differently of course, but the
feelings are generally the same.

I agree with ya Jeanc

Goshhhhhhhh I sure hope so,,, I believe we might process some thoughts
differently being that the err in which one
has grown up,, but in a whole I do believe we all have hopes, dreams and
fears and some choose to express them openly
and others more in a set back way,, We are Human and
have wants, needs and desires......

My hunch is there really can't be all THAT much difference. Of course,
I will never know for sure....

Nobody can know 100%.

Well, let's just compare notes then, shall we?

When you meet a woman, how and where do you start drawing the
distinction between thinking she's pretty to I really like her to I
think I love her to ...

Laaaa--aaa-D when you're with me I'm smiiiillinnnng...

Gi-ive me whoa whoah all your looo-ooove?

type of feeling?

Personally I don’t believe it’s a gender issue.

I believe that all individuals feel emotions differently and express
them differently.

When I was younger I naïvely believed that women were more compassionate
than men. I have since learned that many women are quite insensitive
and cruel and that many men are deeply compassionate and sensitive.

So gender is totally irrelevant to these things. People are individuals.
They can’t be tossed into boxes with names on them based on gender or
anything other single factor. Everyone is an individual and should be
experienced as such.


Jean wrote:
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So women and men feel the same emotions when they're in love? Think the
same thoughts?
Have the same hopes, dreams and fears?

hi abra

Hi Kim! :place happy emoticon here:

OMFG James ... What a weak man you are, afterall ... you said we will
see you in Fall happy and married hahahaha

muah James on your cheek ...

Welcome *Grins*

I’m not sure if I ever draw a ‘distinction’

Most of the time the woman will draw the ‘distinction’ for me by simply
refusing to talk to me. I can’t very well get to know someone who
refuses to communicate with me.

When I do communicate with women we quite often discover that we like
each other. However, liking each other usually doesn’t mean a lot. We
may have vastly different interests in life. We quickly discover that
while we like each other we share no common interests. So we usually
just go our separate ways from there even though there wasn’t any
‘disliking’ involved.

Falling in love? Well, we got to get past the first two items above
before that can happen. I’ll let you know if I ever get that far. :o)


Jean wrote:
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When you meet a woman, how and where do you start drawing the
distinction between thinking she's pretty to I really like her to I
think I love her to ...

Now all you men line up and i'll experieience you individually.


As to the thread I believe its basically the same among all humans
though there are those who are incapable of it.I wonder how that
happens?

"Distinction" meaning..difference..progression..change..morphosis,
whatever...from attraction to like to love to madly in love?

I know! I’m pathetic!

I escaped one place and now I’m hooked on another! Blame Nene! She
sent me the URL. (ha ha)

I confess that I need a woman in my life. I’ve confessed that over and
over again but it doesn’t seem to help. I’m nothing without a woman in
my life and that’s just the way it is. I’ll continue to be a nothing
until I die. And then I’ll be a dead nothing. (ha ha)

Marina wrote:
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OMFG James ... What a weak man you are, afterall ... you said we will
see you in Fall happy and married hahahaha

WOW, that guy abracadabra is smart

Sheila -- re: comparing notes --

It's difficult, for me, because each case, each person I've been
involved with, is different.

I think the only consistency in the equation is that I become more and
more cynical as time goes on. So, whereas I might have had certain
feelings (and been aware of those feelings, and actually admitted them
to myself) earlier in the process 10 years ago, today I have reached the
point where I simply do not allow myself to even consider having those
feelings.

But if I did, it would probably be different from all the other times
anyway.

I guess what I'm saying is that I have no formula, no protocol. Like
Kerry Wood said before his arm fell off, "It is what it is."

Well, I'm already madly in love with your legs, so if we can progress
from there we'll be in good shape.


Jean Wrote:
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"Distinction" meaning..difference..progression..change..morphosis,
whatever...from attraction to like to love to madly in love?

James ... You are a human being , that's all

i am happy you are here

Big Hug

your firate woman :^)

Lex, I can relate...boy, can I ever. But...as long as I have a beating
heart I cannot ignore my capacity ..and need ...for love. I think it
...or at least the quest for it...is what makes life worth living. Pain
and all.

****

James, ju bad main.



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