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Topic: I hope this doesnt offend anyone that has emailed me... BUT.
Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:02 AM
Alright... this has happened quite a few times... I get emails that say... "I would like to chat sometime... which one are youhuh "
I do have a pic of just myself... in the blue at a bowling alley... but BEFORE you ask to chat wouldnt you inquire which one I am???? If something ever developed... I would not be comfortable hanging with my friends knowing you did not care if it was me or them you dated!!!!noway

usernamefayou's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:04 AM
that's not nice cornfusing the poor chap

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Tue 12/09/08 05:07 AM
Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with.

I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion.

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Tue 12/09/08 05:09 AM
You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

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When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

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Tue 12/09/08 05:10 AM
and you really dont want to be in a relationsh*t!!!

Tell me Im wrong????

Delve deep into your soul and tell me Im wrong???laugh

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:11 AM

Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with.

I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion.

I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat.

usernamefayou's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:13 AM


Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with.

I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion.

I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat.


have you ever met a man before?

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Tue 12/09/08 05:14 AM


I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat.

Maybe they don't care what you look like and they just want you for your witty banter and charming personality.

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Tue 12/09/08 05:15 AM
laugh laugh laugh I call bs all around here!!!!

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:15 AM

You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

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When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does.

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:17 AM



Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with.

I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion.

I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat.


have you ever met a man before?

Off the computer... I am assuming is your question... yes... not from mingle... from... POF & another site... I have had some nice dates & have some friends from it but no relationships yet.

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Tue 12/09/08 05:18 AM


You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

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When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does.


Ignore her. She's like this to everyone. She spends most of her time here talking to herself in her own little thread.

Watch and I'll show you how to ignore her.

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Tue 12/09/08 05:20 AM
Im not singling you out........but you singled yourself out so to speak.

Try a single pic of yourself......


then ask questions later.......bigsmile




usernamefayou's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:21 AM




Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with.

I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion.

I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat.


have you ever met a man before?

Off the computer... I am assuming is your question... yes... not from mingle... from... POF & another site... I have had some nice dates & have some friends from it but no relationships yet.


guys love their visuals - you are giving them visual overload

two women in one picture = bisexual laugh

SamaraNJ's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:21 AM


You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

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When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does.


so takign the time to 'single you out'.. .. that means having that main photo of you on your profile is like a test.. who does he like better.. can he pick me before he picks her?

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:23 AM



You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\

When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does.


Ignore her. She's like this to everyone. She spends most of her time here talking to herself in her own little thread.

Watch and I'll show you how to ignore her.

LOL.... this is a forum... we chat & ask for advice... not to be cussed at... I do change my pics periodically but they ALWAYS have my friends in them from when we go out... I dont know...???

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:27 AM



You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

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When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does.


so takign the time to 'single you out'.. .. that means having that main photo of you on your profile is like a test.. who does he like better.. can he pick me before he picks her?

Like ask Hey read your profile but didnt know if you were the one on the left or right... how do you know if you want to chat... nice if you say okay I dont care what you look like I just like you... BUT you dont know me.... you have never met me... you need something more than a paragraph to go by... if you like my friend... I know her #... if you like me we can see how it goes... but if you dont know who you like?????

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:29 AM
BTW... my friend in the pic... IS SINGLE... she is on mingle... and she is an awesome catch... FYI

SamaraNJ's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:29 AM
Edited by SamaraNJ on Tue 12/09/08 05:30 AM




You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\

When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!!laugh

Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does.


so takign the time to 'single you out'.. .. that means having that main photo of you on your profile is like a test.. who does he like better.. can he pick me before he picks her?

Like ask Hey read your profile but didnt know if you were the one on the left or right... how do you know if you want to chat... nice if you say okay I dont care what you look like I just like you... BUT you dont know me.... you have never met me... you need something more than a paragraph to go by... if you like my friend... I know her #... if you like me we can see how it goes... but if you dont know who you like?????


well if you were serious and didn't like the drama I bet that pic would come down and one of just you would be up...

Natty68's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:33 AM
That is a pic of me & my best friend... & the point was I think people should ask first... I just think "drama" is not in the equation of an email that I dont care for... LOL... I dont care for those types of emails... I love the pic of me & my best friend... sorry

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