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Topic: Opinions needed about flirting... (while your partner is wa
TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 04:38 AM

then best of luck in your continuing search bro. I just hope she wasn't flirting with me....(she could have been)...while giving you IM.


I doubt it.

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 12/08/08 04:46 AM
Honestly it sounds like she is playing you....i've known a few girls like this...and if you are her everything as she claims then why is she still looking on a dating site?

What would i do? easy....i'd find some girl i thought was really attractive on her and flirt very openly on here with her....maybe even a friend whom i knew and emailed first to let know...if she really does like you it WILL bother her...then you have something to stand on saying why her flirting bothers you....it's her game..and although i hate them...sometimes it's the only way to get through to people



good luck.

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 04:57 AM
The consensus, 100%, is to run away as fast as possible...

...LOL....

There is wisdom in the counsel of many....

mry's photo
Mon 12/08/08 04:59 AM
Wow, your sooo HOT...I can't imagine anyone doing that to you.

no photo
Mon 12/08/08 04:59 AM
Run Forrest run.


Sorry Dude.

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:04 AM
Ahhhh we humans....I wonder why we all waste so much time in situations that are just unacceptable. And if we were the ones giving the advice that's exactly what we'd say. But if it's OUR life it's happening in, we tolerate far more because OUR feelings are involved.

Bottom line dude. (Jim you don't mind me calling you dude right? LOL :tongue: ) If I am REALLY into a man, I'm done doing all the crazy stuff with anyone else. Heck ..flirting with him becomes the bomb diggety (ie .. all I need yanno?blushing )

She's just not THAT into you buddy. flowerforyou

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:07 AM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Mon 12/08/08 05:09 AM

Ahhhh we humans....I wonder why we all waste so much time in situations that are just unacceptable. And if we were the ones giving the advice that's exactly what we'd say. But if it's OUR life it's happening in, we tolerate far more because OUR feelings are involved.

Bottom line dude. (Jim you don't mind me calling you dude right? LOL :tongue: ) If I am REALLY into a man, I'm done doing all the crazy stuff with anyone else. Heck ..flirting with him becomes the bomb diggety (ie .. all I need yanno?blushing )

She's just not THAT into you buddy. flowerforyou


Thanks Judy.

I'm just trying to figure out stuff. Everything anyone has posted has confirmed my first inclination to get while the getting is good is the best.

I wish I was all that she needed, but its obvious by her actions I am not.

Actions speak louder than words.

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:14 AM
Gotta get some rest.

Been up all night contemplating, and my brain needs rest.

Thanks for all the comments. It just reinforces what I already know is true. I figured the best place for it was in the relationship advice section.

I wonder what makes us continue to try, even after so many failed responses?

No idea.

I am so much happier when I am just single, no worries, just feed the dog and do my homework, and life is peaceful.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:15 AM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Mon 12/08/08 05:16 AM

Run Forrest run.


Sorry Dude.


BUT I CAN'T LEAVE BUUUUUB-BAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!


(way funny, humor is the best medicine...)

mry's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:17 AM

Gotta get some rest.

Been up all night contemplating, and my brain needs rest.

Thanks for all the comments. It just reinforces what I already know is true. I figured the best place for it was in the relationship advice section.

I wonder what makes us continue to try, even after so many failed responses?

No idea.

I am so much happier when I am just single, no worries, just feed the dog and do my homework, and life is peaceful.

Some people are just meant to be alone.



Aweeee, I would'nt feel that way...some people are just scoundrels. It just was'nt your time yet.

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:20 AM
Sweetie, its been 46 years, my time is long past....

... never had it, never will.

Not sure I even want it. It causes nothing but trouble, anguish, and depression. I never get the good stuff. I don't believe it exists. Not for me.

Some people truly are made to remain single.

Like ol' Paul the Apostle.

I just don't need all the hassel at any price.

mry's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:22 AM

Sweetie, its been 46 years, my time is long past....

... never had it, never will.

Not sure I even want it. It causes nothing but trouble, anguish, and depression. I never get the good stuff. I don't believe it exists. Not for me.

Some people truly are made to remain single.

Like ol' Paul the Apostle.

I just don't need all the hassel at any price.



Stop it now...take me for example...I have been on here for quite some time and all I attract are the CREEPY guys...but I will NEVER give up on true love.

TelephoneMan's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:24 AM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Mon 12/08/08 05:25 AM
Bah Hum Bug....

... I could (and have been all my life) be very happy to live as a recluse.

Why I try this nin-com-poop love crap is beyond me.

I'm sure I'm only here because I am bored to death, and this is entertainment.

Its free, too....

... but remind me not to get suckered into any more silly relationships.

BLAH.

mry's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:26 AM
Take a bath and soak your wounds...then get up and start all over.

oldsage's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:31 AM
Be glad you found out early.

Stick around for the friends you have made & will make.

Internet is OK, have to be careful here, just like out on the street.

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