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No your not defective but you might want to think about not flirting with married men even if they are friends from the past.  |
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whew i wasn't ready to delve into this mess...but i guess it happened anyway. let me just put it this way. i agree. i am not falling for his 'fake niceness' when it so rarely rears its head, and i made this decision 2 years ago when counseling didn't work. but 2 kids and financial dependence is a hard load to kick. let me get u all to understand; he is on probation he will not do a thing to me UNLESS I LEAVE. so in leaving i am putting myself most at risk, so like i said things have to be taken care of with careful planning and support. ok.. Im just gonna let it go.. I hope you work things out.. |
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i know it seems so simple from the outside but remember that these men orchestrate elaborate plans to keep their women
1. feeling incompetent/bad 2. dependent so i've defeated both, and it's just a matter of time but the insecurity permeates my life--as you saw with my obsession about my pics i'm scared everyone sees me as he does. |
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thanks samara
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honey.. I know how it is.. Im not entirely looking from the outside... when you finally have the strength to do it you will...
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if you get involved with a married person, male or female, you WILL end up getting hurt
and if you do screw around with a married person, male or female, you can't go cryin to anybody when you get hurt cause they are gonna say "wtf did you expect?" |
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I seriously doubt your looks have anything to do with it. Either his wife caught him looking at pics of another woman or he started feeling guilty and wanted to end it before anything actually happened.
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and thanks starttraveler plz pray for me but mostly for the 2 little boys involved
love u guys |
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well I'm out too did'nt mean to get so deep with you but know this your beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise good luck to you and yours and remember you're better than him ! God BLESS
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Sun 12/07/08 10:38 PM
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I was talking to a friend from high school. He's married has a kid, I'm in a relat. So almost in the first message he demands he wants to see me. We keep talking, I keep giving him reasons not to see me; it was just for innocent catch-up but as time went on we realized we were flirting and really attracted to eachother. He admitted a long burning desire for me in h.s. that i didn't return. He said that our only problem is timing, that if he wasn't in such a great relationship he would have a 'torrid affair with you. right now', but he won't because he respects his wife. and i respect that. my question is, towards the end of our talking i sent some photos and suddenly i get this email saying 'this was innapropriate and i've hurt my wife'. He said it's the last communication. Is it because of my pictures or is it probably his wife found my pics and demanded something and he realized how he had gone too far? Now let's say, theoretically he wasn't married and i sent him these pics and chatted, would he have been different? He even recorded a song that he sung and played on guitar for me...and every time i listen to it i cry...not for him but because its such a nice gift. someone tell me if it's me or if it was the situation. i sent him the pic u see on this post and the ones in my profile  I know who you are talking about I have been chatting with his wife.
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Edited by
STARTRAVELER
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Sun 12/07/08 10:41 PM
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Your welcome and be safe everybody calls me star for short !
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Mirror you naughty boy
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Mirror you naughty boy
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