thanks again guys!!!

no she isnt into drugs, drinking...she doesnt even smoke. she attends church 3 times a week and is heavily involved with the church. they are like night and day. i will give her credit. we talked again tonight pretty heavy and she knows he isnt for her, there is no future. as i stated to her, "do you really want a man who you can take your 6 kids to see every month to the prison to see thier dad on your way home from picking up your food stamps?!?!?!?!"

her face said it all when i said that. she is in college, working, striving for her goals...he sits on his ass, doesnt work, parties, etc....

she said she knows what she has to do....

when she became involved with him, he was not like this. i have known him since he was born. during the course of time, the drugs changed his behavior. she keeps hoping and praying he will stop and become the old chad she fell in love with. that is what makes it hard for her.