what do you do if you were with someone they broke up with you and you go back out with them (3 month break up) then they wear the person they were withs jewelry that they gave them.



How do you respond to that, I told her I didn't like it but yet she still wears it. She sleeps with a hate he gave her next to her bed, she keeps pictures of him and her together.


<edit> the reason she claims to keep it all is cause its her moms cousin (her second cousin I think its called)

Sounds to me like she ain't EVEN over him yet!!

I think I'd MOVE ON.....!

She isn't over him. She went back to someone she knew would be there when she is between guys. Hate to say it, sounds like she is using you. Because you are safe and comfortable for her.

If she can't respect your feeling man, I would say that she doesn't think highly of you. I mean, if you ask her to not wear it, and expalin why, and she dismisses it, then I would move on man.

Run Forest run

But how do you move on from someone you still love with all of your heart? How do you move on from the person you yelled to what ever deity exists you can have my soul just don't take her from me.

Then stay with her and let her treat you like crap.

Your 20, you will get over it. Believe me.


Wait a minute, is this the same girl thats moving or something?

What she said.

It isn't easy. But think of it this way dude. She has mixed feelings right now. She is not over this other guy, while you love her and she knows it (but deep down, I just feel that she wants the other guy). In the end, you are gonna get hurt here man. Yeah, I know you are hurting right now cause this is a situation where it is causing you to come here and aske for our advice. I can't give you a simple answer, or one that will make this all better, or make it easy to walk away. You just have to look over all the facts and make a choice. If you stay, you will more than likely get hurt. If you leave, you will be hurting. It sucks, but that is just life sometimes. I honestly feel that you need to just take some time away from her, and allow her time to figure her own feelings out.

First of all you don't own her, she can do what she wants. Its your choice how to handle it. JMO

I don't think wearing the jewelry and stuff is a big deal.. she's not seeing him anymore.. jewelry is meant to be worn.. why waste it.. however, keeping his pic and stuff, I don't agree with that, there is some sentimental attachment there or something... I would have thrown it out.. I'm not sentimental and keep things like girls do...

Moving?

Nevermind. Your pic reminded me of a guy asking for advice the other night about his girl moving away. Sorry.

Goof is right though. : )

why waste your love on someone that doesn't love you.... If you are into someone so much that whatever they do and how much they hurt you doesn't matter.. are you really in love? or are you just holding on cause you don't have the strength to let go and be on your own....

my ex used to do that .. wore the gold chain his ex gave him.. he would never take it off... i hated it when he was ontop and the damn thing would go in my mouth talk about romance!

It comes down to this. You tell her something bothers you emotionally but she doesn't care. Why continue the relationship?

Answer the question yourself and decide if it bothers you that much or if it is minor. You decide, you are in control.

dude....got much love 4 you,but her 2nd cousin??????that's not a question.....it's a jerry springer episode.