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Lower my standards ok not standards but I'm not sure the right word.. Not a fan of baby mama drama because I don't have kids, I want kids.. Just want my kids? I dunno.. I guess I have the biggest prob with that because it seems everyone I look at has kids.. The whole god/jesus thing isn't so bad but since I'm more agnostic than anything.. That wouldnt work out too well.. C'mon why is it so effin difficult lol
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because you make it difficult?
its understandable that you don't want other peoples kids and people have to respect that fact. i mean i am not mother material right now either so i'm not down with that.. not that i'm sayin you're mother material. LOL just stop lookin at all that and look at the person themselves. or... stick to what you're doin.. its workin so well right? |
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there is nothing wrong with dating someone with a kid... the only bad part is that if you break up, you wont be able to see the kid anymore. the baby momma drama only really bothers you if you let it. i agree with you on the religion thing, sometimes thats an issue but as long as the person doesnt shove their religion in your face it should be ok lol.
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God.. I hope I'm not mother material haha. Oh yeah.. Workin out wonderful.. I'm only here for the forums anyways haha
because you make it difficult? its understandable that you don't want other peoples kids and people have to respect that fact. i mean i am not mother material right now either so i'm not down with that.. not that i'm sayin you're mother material. LOL just stop lookin at all that and look at the person themselves. or... stick to what you're doin.. its workin so well right? |
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LOL yeah.. It's not a big deal if it's not shoved down my throat.. But, god seems if they arent baby mama's then they're saying in big bold letters how much they love jesus.. And, that's awesome if that's what you want to believe. If you want to believe in buddah, allah, whatever.. I don't care lol
there is nothing wrong with dating someone with a kid... the only bad part is that if you break up, you wont be able to see the kid anymore. the baby momma drama only really bothers you if you let it. i agree with you on the religion thing, sometimes thats an issue but as long as the person doesnt shove their religion in your face it should be ok lol. |
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surrender everything you want--it's not out there some reason
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It should NOt matter if someone you like alot allready has Kids! If she's cool & you guys haVe a good thing you can't be too picky! Love may only come once in a LIFETIME!
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I dont want other peoples kids.......I like my own!!!
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It should NOt matter if someone you like alot allready has Kids! If she's cool & you guys haVe a good thing you can't be too picky! Love may only come once in a LIFETIME! Yeah that would be differant.. But seeing as how it's a first impression online.. Don't get me wrong someone has kids awesome. I love kids.. Sh*t I worked at Build A Bear workshop for that very reason. I've just had enough relationships go blah.. Both parties have been hurt.. I'd hate to bring a kid into that too. |
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Um...I'm child-less and um...not a jesus freak...we do exist...*l*
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Um...I'm child-less and um...not a jesus freak...we do exist...*l* Fair enough... Never said y'all *redneck term because god forbid I say you guys, and everyone knows you ladies sounds odd* anyways, never said you didnt exsist lol. Just said my searches are turning up nothing but |
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I believe that accepting someone else's child, and loving them as your own can only raise your standards, not lower them. You don't know what kind of blessing you would get by doing that.
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