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Topic: is this what it's come to?
cincycat's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:22 PM
is this what it's come to?...i'm doing some venting from the previous forum...but again..is this what it's come to?...i'm having a rough time finding someone local..and i'm finding myself more open to the long distance relationship... i know i'm not alone because I have seen others say the same type of thing

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:23 PM
yes and no...smokin

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:23 PM
Yes. flowerforyou

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:28 PM
Focus more on finding friends first instead of deliberately looking for a relationship. No relationship will work unless you're friends first, and anything worth doing is worth taking the time to do it properly.

cincycat's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:30 PM

Focus more on finding friends first instead of deliberately looking for a relationship. No relationship will work unless you're friends first, and anything worth doing is worth taking the time to do it properly.
did i say i was delibaretly looking for a relationship?..lol..no. i don't think i did...and maybe i could've wrote it better

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:31 PM

Focus more on finding friends first instead of deliberately looking for a relationship. No relationship will work unless you're friends first, and anything worth doing is worth taking the time to do it properly.

What he said:tongue:

no photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:33 PM

is this what it's come to?...i'm doing some venting from the previous forum...but again..is this what it's come to?...i'm having a rough time finding someone local..and i'm finding myself more open to the long distance relationship... i know i'm not alone because I have seen others say the same type of thing


I know exactly what you mean -- trying to find anyone decent locally is harder than finding a goat on Mars, but no matter how bad it gets, I am NEVER going to throw myself on the LDR grenade again.



Lily0923's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:34 PM

...and maybe i could've wrote it better


or you could have written it better...

cincycat's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:34 PM


Focus more on finding friends first instead of deliberately looking for a relationship. No relationship will work unless you're friends first, and anything worth doing is worth taking the time to do it properly.

What he said:tongue:
findng a long distance friendship... it's what i meant anyway..lol.. eevry relationship starts off being friends.. i already know thatlaugh :tongue:

Krimsa's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:35 PM
Edited by Krimsa on Thu 12/04/08 06:36 PM

is this what it's come to?...i'm doing some venting from the previous forum...but again..is this what it's come to?...i'm having a rough time finding someone local..and i'm finding myself more open to the long distance relationship... i know i'm not alone because I have seen others say the same type of thing


It is harder to find people closer to you.I have expanded a bit and actually have met someone but they are about 11 hours away by car.Sucks but could be worse. I dont know. They might come visit me in Spring. Will see. Its not definite.

I think you might have to open it up a bit if the more local pickins are slim. huh

Lily0923's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:36 PM
try actually writing a profile...that's a start I think.

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:37 PM
did i say i was delibaretly looking for a relationship?..lol..no. i don't think i did...and maybe i could've wrote it better


Yeah, maybe you could have. Perhaps than it wouldn't have come across as whining.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:37 PM
Just about everyones complaint is that there is no one local for anybody, that's why I'm just here to talk with my friends in the forums.

cincycat's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:40 PM

did i say i was delibaretly looking for a relationship?..lol..no. i don't think i did...and maybe i could've wrote it better


Yeah, maybe you could have. Perhaps than it wouldn't have come across as whining.
whininglaugh

cincycat's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:42 PM

Just about everyones complaint is that there is no one local for anybody, that's why I'm just here to talk with my friends in the forums.
you nailed it bro..thanks... never again will i express this again..i'm right with ya... thats what i get for expressing a little of my feelings

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:43 PM
....and we've moved on to martyrdom.

Dan99's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:44 PM
Other sites are better for meeting local people.

This is a good one, but we are all spread out.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:44 PM
WRITE a cohearant profile, with what you have you come off as arrogant and ignorant... I'm sure you aren't but that's what it says about you.

Get better pictures that you can actually SEE.

You want to meet someone put yourself out there, don't say..."ask me what you want to know" with that I don't want to know anything.

It's really about your marketing...

Krimsa's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:45 PM

Other sites are better for meeting local people.

This is a good one, but we are all spread out.


I'd do Dan, but he's a Brit. laugh

Dan99's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:46 PM

WRITE a cohearant profile, with what you have you come off as arrogant and ignorant... I'm sure you aren't but that's what it says about you.

Get better pictures that you can actually SEE.

You want to meet someone put yourself out there, don't say..."ask me what you want to know" with that I don't want to know anything.

It's really about your marketing...


Failing that, write a coherant profile..

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