Get the restrainig order, document everything (it looks like you already are), and talk to your ex-wife. You need the restraining order to protect yourself, but it could make her worse; you should be ready to file one on behalf of your son in case she tries to make contact with him for any reason.

I went through much the same thing with my ex (and we were married for 5 years), no one sees it coming. Unfortunately, there is nothing to stop her from spreading rumors about you. I found that what eventually worked with my ex was to get the restraining order, let him know I was serious about the restraining order, then ignore him. It took about 9 months, but once he realized that he couldn't guilt, bully, or otherwise manipulate me into talking to him, he eventually left me alone.

contacted sprint, they said that the volume of texts was so large that they were unable to store them and deleted all up until nov 26th.


That sucks

As long as you have some of them, and the fact that she has texted you that much, that will speak for your case.

Good luck, my sons mother has about 25 warrants, is a fugitive from justice for all kinds of thing, and the damn courts are trying to give custody back to her. She shows up at court and they don't even arrest her on the warrants. Court in this state at least don't like fathers. I don't know what it's like there. But keep notes and records on all of this. Or you won't have a chance. I even kept records about all my sons moms threats, some of them even on tape. The judge just very plainly said "I don't want to hear it". Good luck!

she sounds more psychopathic than sociopathic.

socios have no emotional attachment. they are devoid of the difference between right and wrong and do things in a cold, calculating, brilliant way. they are to be totally and utterly feared as if they make you a target, they feel nothing, they just kill you.

psychopaths create relationships with their victims. they become highly manic in their emotional state and become violent to the point of destruction or mutilation.

I have a friend that was stalked and thanks to the patriot act they dug up soo much dirt on the guy they not only caught him red handed stalking her but stalking 4 other girls, while having a previous rape charge.

it was a mess. so make sure you show them everything.

then privatize your myspace. duh. if you're running from someone you'd think to be private on everything. hell.. she might have found you here too and is toying with you with a fake account. she might just be a few miles away.. who knows.

man if i were you i'd turn everything over to the law and then remove myself from social networking on the net.

its better to protect your son by protecting yourself.

just sayin..

by federal law they have to store them. thats a lie.

Get proof of her threatening you, anything at all, and turn that into the authorities. Give notice of her doings to her family. You must take prompt action and make things happen--it's nothing that can't be defensed.

LOL, no you don't. I've had one, it's pretty freaky..

She's right on this. Call the cops.

yer whole situation is f*cked bro, i feel for ya.
on the subject of texts, when she sends them to you, forward them to an email address and print them out, that way you have hard copies of the texts, and it wouldnt matter if sprint deletes them from their system

You are protected by the same stalking laws women are.

You are entitled to counseling under crime victims assistance once she is charged & convicted.

You are also entitled to resourceing from any domestic violence service offered to women. Maybe at a segregated program but believe me you are not the first man to be in this situation.

If this woman knows about your child I would definitely see her as a threat to the child and notify the custodial parent and child protective services. You have that right as your son's biological parent.

I do think you may have to document what you are doing by a third party to get anywhere..

I'm sorry but something just doesn't seem right here...

I have a restraining order on my ex-husband. It didn't stop him from coming around...but the cops showing up, handcuffing him, and taking him to jail distracted him for a few days. He got out, came after me again. Back in jail he went. His mom posted a $50,000 CASH only bond....out once again. Sad story...turned happy. Court sent him to prison. It was worth it. I not only saved my life, butthe lives of my children (his children). Good luck. You'll make it.

Ok, I filed charges on her on the 4th.

Yesterday I hadnt been contacted, supposedly an Investigator was supposed to contact me. So I contacted him. He did not believe that I was telling the truth because Im male.

I got a little mad and talked to his supervisor. I got them to read her emails and they made a call to her cell phone asking her to stop contacting me.

She was told that if she continued, she would be charged.

30 minutes later she texts me to tell me shes in my town.



Jill said:

"I'm sorry but something just doesn't seem right here... huh"

What does that mean?

Been there, done that and NO you don`t!!!!!!!!!

My cell phone can download to my computer. Maybe this could be an option for you to keep a record of her calls and texts.

Oh absolutely Im keeping a record of everything now.

wow..I feel for ya brother
I have a guy thats been stalking me for three years..I've called the cops( and had to beg them to come out and do their job) and filed the order and went to court. They told him to leave me alone, stay off my street and dismissed it.
The thing i'm most afraid of is that someday I will have to shoot him..because he will never stop. At least now I have a paper trail that proves a history of violence...just in case he's dumb enough to come onto my property again
..good luck

The investigator asked me if I thought she'd be capable of carrying through on her threats.

She has 2 Ex's that she talked about a lot. One is in prison for his membership in a white supremacist group. Hes an ordained minister for the skinheads.

The other is the father of her children. Hes in prison for drug trafficking and for working as the enforcer for a gang in oak cliff, south Dallas.

No, I did not know these things when we first started going out, I met her in church for crying out loud. I actually read letters both of these guys had written her from prison.