Topic: what do you do when...........
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Wed 12/03/08 01:43 AM
just so you know im a gay male that way you know what kind of adviceto give.

please when replying no hate messages ive been really down and am easily upset lately only reply if your gonna try to help.

1. none of your relationhips last more hen a week or 2.

2. you have many many singles profiles and noone ever messages you ever.

3. the local guys wont even give you a chance.

4. the only ones that want to date you only want you for sex.

5. you feel like **** for being alone your whole life.

6. want to give up.

7. you ont see a point anymore and have no trust or love to give anymore.


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Wed 12/03/08 01:50 AM
Sit back and relax and don't make meeting someone a job. Enjoy meeting people as friends and it will happen...worked for mebigsmile Good luck to youflowerforyou

keepthehope's photo
Wed 12/03/08 02:28 AM
I would suggest you go to a counselor. I will not say I agree with your lifestyle choice, but you do sound depressed to me, and have a low self-esteem. Maybe seek counseling before another relationship.

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Wed 12/03/08 03:28 AM
OMG, you're only 19. What? You think you're supposed to have found the one true love of your life by now? Straight or Not, at 19 all I wanted was sex too. I thought I wanted love, but I had no idea what love was. This is a time for dating. Going out with different people, not just serching for love.
I agree with a keepthehope, maybe get your own head straight before another relationship. Because if you think that a new love will fix everything, you are going to be very disppointed.

galendgirl's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:24 AM
Gay or straight...male or female...you've got the same problems as everyone else in the dating world. If you are depressed, get help but otherwise, just keep the faith :)

Moondark's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:33 AM
Looked at your profile and emailed you some thoughts on this topic.

jdcolvin's photo
Wed 12/03/08 10:32 AM
You are 19..Reguardless of your sexual presence you are too young to need a long term relationship...Enjoy life while you can.

lilith401's photo
Wed 12/03/08 10:35 AM
That sounds like dating life for everyone! Dating just stinks.

You will find someone looking for a real relationship, don't have sex right away and be patient. Perservere. Enjoy being young and live your life as honorably as you can. Good luck.

Adrenaline's photo
Wed 12/03/08 02:16 PM
Edited by Adrenaline on Wed 12/03/08 02:16 PM
yep dude, you got a long road ahead of you and you don't want to put too much importance on the here and now of relationships. At your point you should still be not really sure exactly what your looking for and even if you are, chances are that picture will change a dozen times before it settles. Like everyone says.....relax, enjoy yourself, learn about yourself, learn about others. Nows the time you need to be defining yourself so you don't have to do it later.

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Wed 12/03/08 02:18 PM
The grass always looks greener on the other side.. but not always true.. take the time now while you can to know who you really are and what you want in life and out of life.. when you begin to love and accept your whole being love will find its way in..flowerforyou

Adrenaline's photo
Wed 12/03/08 02:26 PM

when you begin to love and accept your whole being love will find its way in..flowerforyou


Thats nice :)