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Topic: Questioning reality.
Lily0923's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:13 PM
Would you make the bold step to call someone your GF/BF if you wouldn't or couldn't tell your family and friends about them?

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Tue 12/02/08 05:16 PM
Lily, baby,.... I tell everyone and anyone you are my B*tch!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:17 PM

Lily, baby,.... I tell everyone and anyone you are my B*tch!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh


and I lick your boots to prove it too...blushing

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:18 PM
oh damn!!!

(((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing...

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:18 PM

Lily, baby,.... I tell everyone and anyone you are my B*tch!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh
:laughing: rofl :laughing:

Nice...

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Tue 12/02/08 05:18 PM
my mom likes papersmile. she thinks she's sweet

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Tue 12/02/08 05:19 PM
There is no way I would hide that from anyone. But of course, I have no family, and my friends have no issues with whatever it is I'm doing.



Lily0923's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:19 PM

oh damn!!!

(((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing...


What if you kept them a secret all together?

This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend...

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:20 PM

Would you make the bold step to call someone your GF/BF if you wouldn't or couldn't tell your family and friends about them?


Er to answer your question.... Nope.
If I couldn't or wouldn't tell my friends and family about him there must be a red flag of some kind.I can't and wont waste my time with a guy if the people most important to me don't know about him.

That is me though.whoa

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Tue 12/02/08 05:21 PM
I wanna be someones *****bigsmile bigsmile :tongue:

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Tue 12/02/08 05:21 PM
i wouldnt bother telling my old man, too much of a wierdo. my friends if they asked then yes

Lily0923's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:21 PM

There is no way I would hide that from anyone. But of course, I have no family, and my friends have no issues with whatever it is I'm doing.





Personally Lex, I support you in any endevors you partake.

^^^^^^^^
That's the Lily stamp of approval.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:21 PM


oh damn!!!

(((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing...


What if you kept them a secret all together?

This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend...



Ahhh there's something about him that makes it so she can't tell them... Well, in that case I guess I would call him my bf but in all honesty I wouldn't hide anyone, if I had to hide them I shouldn't be dating them and if my family wouldn't accept someone I liked then shame on them...

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Tue 12/02/08 05:22 PM


There is no way I would hide that from anyone. But of course, I have no family, and my friends have no issues with whatever it is I'm doing.





Personally Lex, I support you in any endevors you partake.

^^^^^^^^
That's the Lily stamp of approval.


Works for me! Thank you!

flowers flowers flowers


Dan99's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:24 PM
No, but only because i dont have to. If i was a muslim girl, say, and my dad would kill me to bring 'honour' back to his family, then i would most certainly...

Lily0923's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:25 PM



oh damn!!!

(((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing...


What if you kept them a secret all together?

This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend...



Ahhh there's something about him that makes it so she can't tell them... Well, in that case I guess I would call him my bf but in all honesty I wouldn't hide anyone, if I had to hide them I shouldn't be dating them and if my family wouldn't accept someone I liked then shame on them...


That's how I look at it, I'm not ashamed of anyone I would bring home to mom...so to speak.

He took her to his family Thanksgiving, but she won't even tell her family that he exsists.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:27 PM

If i was a muslim girl,


You're half way there.... oh you're Muslim too?

GuitarManager's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:28 PM
Whatever the reason for keeping someone secret from friends and family immediately excludes them from the title of girlfriend or boyfriend.

If the girl you work with wont tell her family then she's doing it for a reason, usually fear of how they will judge him. If she is afraid of their reaction then she must have doubts herself. The answer is no.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:29 PM




oh damn!!!

(((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing...


What if you kept them a secret all together?

This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend...



Ahhh there's something about him that makes it so she can't tell them... Well, in that case I guess I would call him my bf but in all honesty I wouldn't hide anyone, if I had to hide them I shouldn't be dating them and if my family wouldn't accept someone I liked then shame on them...


That's how I look at it, I'm not ashamed of anyone I would bring home to mom...so to speak.

He took her to his family Thanksgiving, but she won't even tell her family that he exsists.


If it's b/c of race or religion I thing it's wrong to hide someone or the family to not accept them and if you want to go by your families wishes then you shouldn't mess there anyway... Now, if he were a drug dealer, con, etc. I can see not introducing him but well why date a guy like that...

does she give you the reason?

Dan99's photo
Tue 12/02/08 05:30 PM


If i was a muslim girl,


You're half way there.... oh you're Muslim too?



If i was Muslim i wouldnt be allowed to get this sex change finished

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