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Topic: Is this really weird?
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/01/08 12:50 PM
I'm 30, have never been married and have no kids. Is that really that strange? I get questions about it sometimes. I guess I don't find it strange because most of my friends in this area are the same way. Those who are married with kids have recently gotten married or had kids.

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Mon 12/01/08 12:51 PM
I'm 30, have never been married and have no kids. Is that really that strange? I get questions about it sometimes. I guess I don't find it strange because most of my friends in this area are the same way. Those who are married with kids have recently gotten married or had kids. Its not strange. Youre just smart.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 12/01/08 12:52 PM
Not at all. I have a close friend that got married a year or two, ago. She was 39 and her husband 44. First marriage for both. Now she has twins.

REDGIRL67 Joined Mon 10/20/08 Posts: 1278	Mon 12/01/08 12:52 PM
I'm 30, have never been married and have no kids. Is that really that strange? I get questions about it sometimes. I guess I don't find it strange because most of my friends in this area are the same way. Those who are married with kids have recently gotten married or had kids. Its not strange. Youre just smart. I agree, i'm 41, never married and no kids.

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Mon 12/01/08 12:53 PM
according to my mother, yes.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/01/08 12:54 PM
i must be doing something wrong. i 21, never drank or made an accidential baby

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/01/08 12:55 PM
Nice to see that some others don't find it strange. Most of the people I went to high school with did get married right out of school and now have 3-4 kids. Which is fine. But, when I moved out of town and met a whole bunch of new people.. they were all more like me. Not rushing to marry.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 12/01/08 12:55 PM
I'd say a majority of people are married or have kids by the time they are 30, I see more & more people who are 40 that are grand parents now.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/01/08 12:57 PM
must be something in the water

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/01/08 12:58 PM
I'd say a majority of people are married or have kids by the time they are 30, I see more & more people who are 40 that are grand parents now. Sure, a lot do. I know there are many on this site who already have been married and had kids. But, I'm noticing a lot more lately who are around my age who aren't. Maybe it's just this area.

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Mon 12/01/08 12:58 PM
I DIDNT KNOW THEY HAD A TIME LIMIT ON IT.............

REDGIRL67 Joined Mon 10/20/08 Posts: 1278	Mon 12/01/08 12:59 PM
Nice to see that some others don't find it strange. Most of the people I went to high school with did get married right out of school and now have 3-4 kids. Which is fine. But, when I moved out of town and met a whole bunch of new people.. they were all more like me. Not rushing to marry. Most of my friends got married right after high school and now they are divorced or getting divorced and fighting over custody of the kids. No thank you. Glad I never got married.

CuriousEve Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 18	Mon 12/01/08 01:02 PM
weird, absolutley not. You decide for yourself when you want to settle down, I think it is smart to wait until you are older, you know yourself better and what you want.

☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟 Joined Tue 10/03/06 Posts: 40118	Mon 12/01/08 01:02 PM
And just remember THIS....3 out of every 2 marriages will END in Divorce!

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/01/08 01:03 PM
such a sad fact

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/01/08 01:05 PM
I guess the part I find weird is when the guys ask why I haven't been married.. like there's something wrong.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/01/08 01:06 PM
yea, you took the smart path

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/01/08 01:24 PM
I don't really see it as a smart or not smart path. Just wondering what others think.

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Mon 12/01/08 01:28 PM
About two weeks ago my mom said to me "if you aren't married or in a relationship by the time you're 31 you should consider artificial insemination" WTH???

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/01/08 01:30 PM
About two weeks ago my mom said to me "if you aren't married or in a relationship by the time you're 31 you should consider artificial insemination" WTH??? hah. wow.