Ok refresh my memory.....so life and women are still bad then???

Everything has a good and bad to it. If you don't want to hear the bad along with the good then don't post the damn question looking for responses.

If your just looking for someone to hold your hand and tell you wnat you want to hear then say so in the first place.

i WOULD like a tootsie pop and 14 camels for xmas!!!

if you bring bad energy to you, it doesn't matter what it is, love, friends, bad business, it will attract bad happenings if you talk with very negative thoughts. and why doesn't everyone deserve it? i'm hidious as hell, but still have friends, and am loved, and the people that are asswipes, that you don't think deserve it right now, may change.... we all are capable of that, so then, they'll deserve it, right?
i'm not looking for anything either, but it's not because i gave up, i just need to be doing this transition that i'm in, and when there's someone equally as ugly,, well maybe, we'll see.

Actually things had started looking up and going really well. actually found a woman that I was really starting to like.

Then come to find out that she was married, and had another boyfriend.

Then the econamy went to Hell and now I'm trying to save my business and my ass and right now I'm barly doing it but its starting to look like not for much longer.

When she found that out away she went not to e heard from in several weeks.

It would be one thing it this was the first, second or even tenth time but its not. But by god it will be the last.

SO no I don't think love exists and if it does then I can safly assume that I don't Desurve it for what ever reason.

There it is. You asked.

WOW that was random

That's rude.

Sorry to hear of your misfortune. So what you are saying is that women that YOU pick leave you after you lose your business/money etc?

Soooooo the only common denominator in this equation is YOU. It could be YOU and it could the the women YOU pick out. Its your choice. I believe instead of being negative and hurt, take this time to do some inner healing and think about things.

TO be honest the only time I'm really "Negative" is when it comes to my personal life. In my business I've become good at putting away my personallife andthe negativaty with it.

And I wish you the bestof luck. I've read many of your posts and you seem like a good man.

Ya Im random!!! I would also like sex and 2 scoops of raisins in my kellogs raisin bran and a banana dog. Please write this down.

well thank you! but stop being negative in personal life. even single it'll effect you, and you know this. tony robbins pulled me out of that way of thinking years ago, and i'm applying it again now, to sell a house in these times, so there's merit to what i say, for it's fact. period.


oh, and disreguard all the poop posts then!!!

Yeah, Its all me. All my fault. I get that. Trust me I get it.

So I take myself, and my desire to not be lonely and belief that love exists out of the equasion and the problem is solved.

besides if I really that bad no woman deserves to have to deal with me anyways.

See I'm doing a public service.

I'll be sure to.

iM NOT saying its all your fault but you do have to take some blame in there. You picked these trashy women right???? Women with husbands and bfs????? Have you tried picking a completely different type of woman????

That was the thing. I didn't know. I, of course, was lied to yet again.

what Im saying is......take yourself out of the equation entirely.......work on yourself.....forget the opposite sex until you are good with you.

Things begin to fall into place after that.

<---still working on herself

to the OP,

don't let people judge you. if you both care for each other,
EVERYONE has obstacles in life. We ALL, yes I said ALL
have illnesses in our lives and overcome them.

fortunately we often have the support of lovers, family and
friends through all the tough times. it is what makes us
human. finding love, family and friends is at the most basic
level what life is all about. the rest is just "what car
car you drive", "what kind of food you like", and "boxers
or briefs"....

so...go find the ones who make a real difference for you,
be with them and let them be with you, and don't pay any
attention to those who wear their briefs too tight!

I guess thats the main thing right now. I'm just not really interested anymore. I've lost interest and frankly don't really want much to do with anyone unless it has to do with work.

that's me as well....but i'm liking being single, and having my freedom, and that may be a problem for anybody else. so it may never be, and i kinda like that idea too.
i like being the creepy monster in the haunted house.....and my house is haunted, lmao!!!

well said slowhand