Why are we walking away and from who/what???

This...but hey, do what you want...I'm young, what do I know.

Lol young?
You're older than I am by about 5 years.

Young by society, sorry. Apparently being anything under 30 means I don't know anything and tends to make my points invalid. Either way, you can coddle a man for so long before the man becomes a burden...best bet is to let go before the problem becomes larger.

"old, a state of mind where anyone younger thinks you are not "hip anymore. to hell with these young whipper-snappers i was doin things like this before they were a wet dream in their daddies head"

My Mom.

LOL

That totally just made my night soooo much better!

Either way, you can coddle a man for so long before the man becomes a burden...best bet is to let go before the problem becomes larger.


People keep telling me to drop the people in my lives that have problems yet everytime I do that I just end up more miserable than before. I'm tired of giving up on people because it seems like the easy way or 'better' way out.

My mom is the shizznit! i was gettin some and she goes "do i need my headphones or not?"
lol
yeah i live with my mom...i just got out of the army and I'm her caregiver now.

People keep telling me to drop the people in my lives that have problems yet everytime I do that I just end up more miserable than before. I'm tired of giving up on people because it seems like the easy way or 'better' way out.


Don't confuse coddling with giving up, there is a difference. You can't baby a man to become a man, you can't worry about a man constantly though on occasion it is alright. This is what seperates man from boy, man deals up with the burden and faces it himself...boy brings others into the burden to help him.

You cannot help someone with an issue, you can be a shoulder to lean on when needed...but there is not much you can do to alleviate the issue aside from being the shoulder.

I realized that sometimes it takes a woman to make a man realize that he's man. I know the world will end, but most people are too blind to see it.

That's cool. I still live with my folks.... Not my favorite thing in the world but that's alright.
Once I get my AA and save up enough money, I'll be outta here. XD

Dude, I WISH my parents were that awesome. My ex's parents were tight like that. They made fun of us ALL the time for doing it.
I spent the night at his place one weekend while both of our parents happened to be out of town and when his parents came back the next day, the first thing out of his stepdads mouth was "OMG. The house is still in one piece!" XD

yeah i was cookin breakfast and the smoke alarm went off and she goes yup its ready. lol she calls me a manwhore..but i screw one chick and counsel 200 more on how to keep their man

I want to be that shoulder to lean on. I'm not asking them for their burdens. I want to become that person that they can rely on to turn to when times are tough. Yet the males I tend to run into and be attracted to never want to let me in that far. They prefer to keep me at arm's length emotionally.

What I meant by giving up is that I'm tired of letting them think that if they keep me away long enough that I'll just stop caring. I'm tired of pretending that I don't care when I do. Whether they like it or not, I'm not going to let them think that I'm just going to stop caring because they want to be all 'manly' and do things on their own.

Tell them.

Haha that's awesome.
My parents don't get to know about my love life. I have never done it in my own house.
When my parents first found out I wasn't a virgin; my dad went and got out his shotgun and was about to leave and literally hunt down the dude who took my virginity. My mom managed to stop him. XD

They're not that smart. I have to show them and the only way to show them is to keep being there when they think they don't need me.

Look it all starts with a solid place to live. If an animal gets kicked around from borrow to brush pile, it isn't going to do so well. A man needs his castle first. All other things are mostly irrelevant. So, if you really want to help, learn some construction. If you want to get with a decent guy, find someone with a residence or someone who is working toward one. The End

look i have learned that sometimes honesty is the best policy...**** its the best policy in relationships period. that and trust love and friendship.

I don't even have a solid place to live. Why would have any chance of being around someone who does?

Honesty is basically the key thing to me in a relationship too.