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Topic: how can women get more sex drives
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Sat 11/29/08 01:06 PM
at first sex was great but she started slowly, we used to have it all the time,

papersmile's photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:17 PM

more sex drives?

as far as i know, most women only have one sex drive

it's either high, medium, or low.

my suggestion if you want your girlfriend to have a higher sex drive than she does, try to treat her as though she isn't your personal sex toy, have more appreciation outside of the bedroom for her than you do in, and don't make her feel as though she doesn't measure up because she might not want it as much as you do.

most women, who are happy outside the bedroom in their relationship, do a pretty good job of making their men happy inside the bedroom. at least that's been my personal observation.

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Sat 11/29/08 01:18 PM


more sex drives?

as far as i know, most women only have one sex drive

it's either high, medium, or low.

my suggestion if you want your girlfriend to have a higher sex drive than she does, try to treat her as though she isn't your personal sex toy, have more appreciation outside of the bedroom for her than you do in, and don't make her feel as though she doesn't measure up because she might not want it as much as you do.

most women, who are happy outside the bedroom in their relationship, do a pretty good job of making their men happy inside the bedroom. at least that's been my personal observation.


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Sat 11/29/08 01:20 PM
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Sat 11/29/08 01:23 PM
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/36769/herbs_and_things_to_increase_a_womans.html

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Sat 11/29/08 01:42 PM
I totally agree. I also believe that it also has to do wit the type and the amount of time giving foreplay: the more foreplay you put every time you have sex, the higher her sex drives will be. Such foreplay include doing the laundry, cooking, kissing..etc.

seahawks's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:01 PM

at first sex was great but she started slowly, we used to have it all the time,
wait till ya get married then no sex just shoppin.!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

awolf1010's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:04 PM
her appettite hasnt gone away!!!
she just isnt connected with you for whatever reason......
and if you dont fill that void.....somebody else will!!!

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:25 PM
You have to show her that you are interested in her more than just in the bedroom. I agree with awolf in the post above.

Start by asking her... talking to her about a change in her sex drive... communication!

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Sat 11/29/08 02:38 PM
i mean i do all these things, i cook, do loundry, clean the house, i call her when she at work, i tell how much imiss her and lover i cant wait to get home, both of us we are in restaurant business we work long hours, but i make sure we take a vacation atleast three times a year, she gott mad at me cause i was going to purchase a house before asking her to marry me, she thinks i should buy her a ring before i make a big purchase like a house> am thinking may be shes seeing someone else, cause right now she doesnt even wants me to sleep in same bed.

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:40 PM
Talk to her! Communicate with her!

Communication and honesty are the keys to a good relationship.

Marie55's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:40 PM
Could be a medical problem too if the above problems listed are not an issue. She can talk to her doctor about it. They put women on very small doses of testosterone and it increases their sex drives. Some medications will turn down or off her sex drive too, some antidepressants, stress, etc. But as they said above, communication is the best way to find out what is going on.

awolf1010's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:43 PM

Talk to her! Communicate with her!

Communication and honesty are the keys to a good relationship.
if your not willing/ or shes not willing to talk!!!!

walk away now!!!!

njmom05's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:43 PM

i mean i do all these things, i cook, do loundry, clean the house, i call her when she at work, i tell how much imiss her and lover i cant wait to get home, both of us we are in restaurant business we work long hours, but i make sure we take a vacation atleast three times a year, she gott mad at me cause i was going to purchase a house before asking her to marry me, she thinks i should buy her a ring before i make a big purchase like a house> am thinking may be shes seeing someone else, cause right now she doesnt even wants me to sleep in same bed.

If you are dating someone with the potential of marriage why did you join a dating site? Maybe she thinks you are seeing someone else.

seahawks's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:44 PM
take her shoppin, do all the house work, buy her flowers. if she not jumpin yur bones she's dead bro.!!!drinker :wink:

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:54 PM

Could be a medical problem too if the above problems listed are not an issue. She can talk to her doctor about it. They put women on very small doses of testosterone and it increases their sex drives. Some medications will turn down or off her sex drive too, some antidepressants, stress, etc. But as they said above, communication is the best way to find out what is going on.


agreed. As women become peri or post-menopausal their sex drive can deminish.

Marie55's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:54 PM

take her shoppin, do all the house work, buy her flowers. if she not jumpin yur bones she's dead bro.!!!drinker :wink:


Damn, when you find this guy, send him my way - I have had a "wanted" sign in my yard for months now, grumble grumble:wink: laugh.

Moondark's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:58 PM
Wow. Do you mean we can install additional sex drives? Do they come with any special features? Do we need to upgrade our power units if we do?

I better stop before I get too carried away with this metaphor.....

tngxl65's photo
Sat 11/29/08 03:02 PM

Wow. Do you mean we can install additional sex drives? Do they come with any special features? Do we need to upgrade our power units if we do?

I better stop before I get too carried away with this metaphor.....


Just make sure you backup your sex drives regularly.

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Sat 11/29/08 03:05 PM
Can I get tech support for the installation of new sex drives? laugh

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