Would you relocate to be with someone you met on mingle?

I wouldn't. Waste of time, money and with the way relationships go these days we probably wouldn't stay together.

I have heard people say they have done it and within 3-5 yrs. they split up.

Another question, why flirt with someone online that is soooooooooo far away from you.

The reason I ask is because I was IM'ing with someone on the E. Coast last night and he popped the question Of course I know he was full of it but he claimed he was serious.

Not nice to toy with feelings

I am willing to relocate but they also have to be flexible. So I guess they would have to be willing to relocate for a few years for me to finish my education then I should be more flexible to move somewhere else. I am not tied to where I live now. I plan on moving out of state for graduate school anyways.

That is why you always make the guy relocate no gain no loss

I'm not becoming a canadian citizen.

I don't like to say "never" too much, but I think I'm pretty safe in saying that I wouldn't relocate for anyone on any dating site.

Not to say that someone couldn't sign up tomorrow and completely knock my socks off, but it's unlikely. First, they would have to put together a profile that says something more than "I don't know what to write here," and I don't think that's scientifically possible.



I've heard that a lot, too -- and since my relationships tend to last about 3 months, max, a relocation is a pretty drastic step anyway.



I think some people do it because it's safe -- there's really no chance of it going any further (unless both parties truly want to pursue things, and how often does THAT happen?) -- and some are just natural flirts. I don't really understand the whole concept of flirting, so I never do it, and if anyone does it to me, I can't recognize it.

I wouldn't but I don't beleve in love any more eather.


Most relationships tend to end badly anyways.

But but but sexy lexy, you aren't going to follow me around like a puppy dog as I finish grad school and be come a sexy successful political analysist

I have moved to within three hours of my kitten, and I intend on finishing the move when my taxes come in if not sooner. If it doesnt work, oh well at least I will be near my best friend. Andif it DOES work?

Well, this is just my sneaky way of getting you to reveal your ultimate plan!

And it worked!

Sure, I'll follow you around like a puppy dog -- I'm sort of "between projects" at the moment -- at least until I get my computer fixed!

I wouldn't, Who would run my eight apartments.

Sadly I don't believe in love anymore either.

Love, courting, heck holding hands - all the good stuff about relationships ended many decades ago and I think it's sad. Nobody takes time to enjoy the little things anymore

if there was true love in the beginning and nobody has his hidden agenda...nothing of this will happen!!!

for you

I never reveal my ultimate plan, at least completely!

phewwwww... I'm glad i'm not that old yet, I believe in love, and i would relocate for the right woman, but she would have to be between 25 and 40,,, lol

That's what I was afraid of....

I have noticed, however, that Ohio and Michigan have a disproportionately high percentage of people I like on this site....why is that? If I was ever thinking about moving to another state....

I would like to find one of those sexy northern girls that would like to relocate to my little paradise.

I am looking at the realistic possibility of moving to China...or possibly Eastern Europe...for my woman...

Moving a few hours away is nothing...Try learning Mandarin Chinese....at this point, I have studied enough that I dream in Chines but can only understand a few words.

I guess my point is....if it is the real deal...distance is irrelevant. Love goes beyond miles.

Don't move to michigan... even people that live here hate it.... for a lot of reasons. [or at least us enlightened people]

Glad you said that. I have seen a lot of hotties from Ohio on here