Topic: To the girls...
songbird274's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:17 PM
I am trying to make friends on here, either girls or guys. I just don't want to wierd out any girls by sending them a message or something. Any advice on how to send the right e-mail or portray the right message in my profile? I am looking in the posts to find some people to talk to, but, again, I don't want to wierd anybody out when they see I've looked at their profile.

songbird274's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:18 PM

I am trying to make friends on here, either girls or guys. I just don't want to wierd out any girls by sending them a message or something. Any advice on how to send the right e-mail or portray the right message in my profile? I am looking in the posts to find some people to talk to, but, again, I don't want to wierd anybody out when they see I've looked at their profile.


I'm looking for friends about my age

countrybelle6471's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:22 PM
I would say look for things that you have in common..It dont bother me when A woman emails me..

usernamefayou's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:23 PM
I think every guy on here is wondering how to send a message and not sound weird. bigsmile

SharpShooter10's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:24 PM

I am trying to make friends on here, either girls or guys. I just don't want to wierd out any girls by sending them a message or something. Any advice on how to send the right e-mail or portray the right message in my profile? I am looking in the posts to find some people to talk to, but, again, I don't want to wierd anybody out when they see I've looked at their profile.
Try something like, Hey, you seem like a cool,nice,neat person, would you like to be friends, I'm not gay or 'hittin" on you..so?

flowerforyou drinker

SharpShooter10's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:27 PM
sent you an email to show you how easy it was..............but i'm to old to be your friendfrown



Sexyklp4U's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:28 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou

nothing wrong with making friends..can email me if u want to..i have alot of male and female friends on here..they r great:smile: drinker :heart:

Sexyklp4U's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:29 PM

sent you an email to show you how easy it was..............but i'm to old to be your friendfrown





noway laugh opps..me too 22 yrs older..but oh well age is just a ###:heart:

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:30 PM
It's not weird. And, girls can't see when you have looked at their profile anyway. flowerforyou

bad_girl's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:31 PM
Yep, me tooslaphead


sent you an email to show you how easy it was..............but i'm to old to be your friendfrown





noway laugh opps..me too 22 yrs older..but oh well age is just a ###:heart:

papersmile's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:31 PM

I am trying to make friends on here, either girls or guys. I just don't want to wierd out any girls by sending them a message or something. Any advice on how to send the right e-mail or portray the right message in my profile? I am looking in the posts to find some people to talk to, but, again, I don't want to wierd anybody out when they see I've looked at their profile.



i don't know the reason, but a woman can't see when another woman has looked at her profile. it's the same with a guy looking at a guy's profile

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:32 PM
I'm in the Los Angeles area, but I'm too old. Just email the girls and see what happens. flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:33 PM


I am trying to make friends on here, either girls or guys. I just don't want to wierd out any girls by sending them a message or something. Any advice on how to send the right e-mail or portray the right message in my profile? I am looking in the posts to find some people to talk to, but, again, I don't want to wierd anybody out when they see I've looked at their profile.



i don't know the reason, but a woman can't see when another woman has looked at her profile. it's the same with a guy looking at a guy's profile
took the words right off my keyboardlaugh flowerforyou

SharpShooter10's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:34 PM

Yep, me tooslaphead


sent you an email to show you how easy it was..............but i'm to old to be your friendfrown





noway laugh opps..me too 22 yrs older..but oh well age is just a ###:heart:

(((((((((my Darlin BadGirl))))))) my

B E S T E S T Friend of allsmooched bigsmile :heart:

songbird274's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:36 PM
Thank you all for all this advice. It really helps!

usernamefayou's photo
Tue 11/25/08 02:55 PM
I think by showing intelligence and mindfulness will impress the most. I wouldn't rule out people over thirty--they can be of great asset. Do your homework and do not be overly trusting. You need to be mostly a dictator at all times and stay in control. Use your self-awareness and please do retreat if you don't like something. Never ever just let things happen. Peace.

bad_girl's photo
Tue 11/25/08 03:35 PM
:heart: smooched love


Yep, me tooslaphead


sent you an email to show you how easy it was..............but i'm to old to be your friendfrown





noway laugh opps..me too 22 yrs older..but oh well age is just a ###:heart:

(((((((((my Darlin BadGirl))))))) my

B E S T E S T Friend of allsmooched bigsmile :heart: