Topic: I'm having a hard time with this dating scene
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Fri 11/28/08 08:17 PM
You don't have to be alone. There are a lot of people who are alone but content and that is enough to attract. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, lay of the booze and get serious about living.

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Fri 11/28/08 08:29 PM
Youre right there are a lot of good men out here but many are not ready or want to meet your expectations and requirements. All you have to do is let your hair down get out of your head and join the weaker sex you might like it. Were not perfect, were human and live by human needs. Yes sex is important to men but that's only because most have been shot down so often and need to fulfill their manhood.

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Sat 11/29/08 03:16 AM
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Sat 11/29/08 03:27 AM
i had to smile at that.got thrown off last year decided i wasn't quite as young as i used to be.the hurt went away but the thought didn't.now i just stay pretty much on my horse.i do still get on others but sometimes i hold the horn.lol

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Sat 11/29/08 03:37 AM
Edited by horsegirl55 on Sat 11/29/08 03:38 AM

i had to smile at that.got thrown off last year decided i wasn't quite as young as i used to be.the hurt went away but the thought didn't.now i just stay pretty much on my horse.i do still get on others but sometimes i hold the horn.lol


Welcome BigJim --- You are going to find a lot of nice people on 50 and over.

I know what you are saying about riding your own horse. I'll ride someone elses horse only if I know they don't have a stupid horse. I don't ride stupid horses. One of my girlfriends I ride with has a stupid horse - she is always trying to get me to ride it--not going to happen. I'm helping another friend with a young horse but he isn't stupid, he just doesn't know what to do.

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Sat 11/29/08 06:43 AM
Girlfriend...just go with the flow and Let it Be. You'll do just fine.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:06 AM
Well Hello Seeker!

Welcomeflowerforyou

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Sat 11/29/08 08:07 AM

Youre right there are a lot of good men out here but many are not ready or want to meet your expectations and requirements. All you have to do is let your hair down get out of your head and join the weaker sex you might like it. Were not perfect, were human and live by human needs. Yes sex is important to men but that's only because most have been shot down so often and need to fulfill their manhood.


Don't really understand this post.
Who's the "weaker sex"??
Who needs sex to "fufill their manhood"??

I don't believe there is such a thing as a "weaker sex."
I KNOW, the ability to have sex has NOTHING to do with "manhood."
Part of the problem, is to many boys thinking in that manner.
MEN can control themselves, are responsible for the results of sex & take PRIDE in helping raise their offspring; even when the parents can't be together.
Ladies have the same power & control.

If I walk on anyone's toes,sorry.
My personal views are very strong & I felt compelled to comment.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:09 AM
Way to go Sage!!!

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Sat 11/29/08 08:13 AM
Good morning, everyone. I survived the holiday, hope all is well. Hgirl, good reply, and of course oldsage is a wise man.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:18 AM
Wise.. sometimes that is questionable

Outspoken...always.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:23 AM

Wise.. sometimes that is questionable

Outspoken...always.


Age does give a different perspective to many things. Sometimes you just have to say something. laugh

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Sat 11/29/08 08:28 AM
Good morning Chocolatewaving

Glad to see you survived.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:37 AM
All your graphics are great hgirl, I feel so computer illiterate.embarassed

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Sat 11/29/08 08:39 AM
I've had bad luck with horses and men!!! laugh

I've enjoyed reading your posts.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:42 AM
Hello Everybody,Welcome bigjim, you will like everyone here. I agree with you choclab I don't know that much about comps either. Good show sage.flowerforyou

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Sat 11/29/08 08:48 AM
sage if your still out there, carol's daughter went into labor this morning. She called me at 5.45 this morning they were on their way to the hospital. Haven't heard anything since.

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Sat 11/29/08 08:48 AM
Hi everybody.
Sage,Iwish there was a way of cloning you!flowerforyou You are always there for all of us.:banana:

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Sat 11/29/08 09:22 AM

Hi everybody.
Sage,Iwish there was a way of cloning you!flowerforyou You are always there for all of us.:banana:

Clone? He just needs a social secretary and an unlimited bank account.laugh

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Sat 11/29/08 09:28 AM
rofl rofl rofl rofl How are you carol?