Topic: No games, no baggage
REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:09 PM
A lot of people on dating sites say "No games/No baggage" completely understandable.

But i'm wondering what people "are willing" to tolerate in a relationship?

Wow! I just realized that I have been concentrating so much on what I won't put up with that i've never considered what "I am" willing to deal with.

I'll have to think about it and get back to ya.


scoundrel's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:12 PM
Capital idea!!drinker

I am STEALING IT!!devil laugh laugh

Totage's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:13 PM
I won't put up with insecurity and drama.

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:14 PM
First of all, knowing yourself and what your boundaries are will help make that decision. No one is perfect yes, this is true, but if you feel uncomfortable or feel anything not right, get out fast. Be an adult about it, and make sure you choose someone who can discuss the relationship with you on a mature level and be honest. Remember, men aren't mind readers, and men, remember, women aren't mind readers either, well some think they are, but that's a whole other ball of wax together. smileshappy flowerforyou happy :banana:

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:16 PM

I won't put up with insecurity and drama.


Yeah, I hear men like women who are uber confidant in all areas of life. Women are the same I think, they like their man to know his stuff in the bedroom as much as in everyday life. Now, if only everyday could be an up day. LOLhappy

REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:16 PM

First of all, knowing yourself and what your boundaries are will help make that decision. No one is perfect yes, this is true, but if you feel uncomfortable or feel anything not right, get out fast. Be an adult about it, and make sure you choose someone who can discuss the relationship with you on a mature level and be honest. Remember, men aren't mind readers, and men, remember, women aren't mind readers either, well some think they are, but that's a whole other ball of wax together. smileshappy flowerforyou happy :banana:
LOLlaugh laugh laugh laugh I could read my ex's mind and he hated it.

He was always saying, "get out of my head woman"

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:28 PM


First of all, knowing yourself and what your boundaries are will help make that decision. No one is perfect yes, this is true, but if you feel uncomfortable or feel anything not right, get out fast. Be an adult about it, and make sure you choose someone who can discuss the relationship with you on a mature level and be honest. Remember, men aren't mind readers, and men, remember, women aren't mind readers either, well some think they are, but that's a whole other ball of wax together. smileshappy flowerforyou happy :banana:
LOLlaugh laugh laugh laugh I could read my ex's mind and he hated it.

He was always saying, "get out of my head woman"

LMAO!!! hahaha, yeah, I knew my ex fiance so well, I pin pointed things about himself he didn't even know many times. It wasn't out of spite just trying to help him see things the way they really were. He actually didn't know what to say, he was surprised about it really. smiles

REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:33 PM



First of all, knowing yourself and what your boundaries are will help make that decision. No one is perfect yes, this is true, but if you feel uncomfortable or feel anything not right, get out fast. Be an adult about it, and make sure you choose someone who can discuss the relationship with you on a mature level and be honest. Remember, men aren't mind readers, and men, remember, women aren't mind readers either, well some think they are, but that's a whole other ball of wax together. smileshappy flowerforyou happy :banana:
LOLlaugh laugh laugh laugh I could read my ex's mind and he hated it.

He was always saying, "get out of my head woman"

LMAO!!! hahaha, yeah, I knew my ex fiance so well, I pin pointed things about himself he didn't even know many times. It wasn't out of spite just trying to help him see things the way they really were. He actually didn't know what to say, he was surprised about it really. smiles
LOL, If I had a nickle for everytime mine would come home saying "I shoulda listened to ya", i'd be able to afford my dream house. Aren't they amusing creatures? God love emdrinker

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:35 PM
laugh :banana:




First of all, knowing yourself and what your boundaries are will help make that decision. No one is perfect yes, this is true, but if you feel uncomfortable or feel anything not right, get out fast. Be an adult about it, and make sure you choose someone who can discuss the relationship with you on a mature level and be honest. Remember, men aren't mind readers, and men, remember, women aren't mind readers either, well some think they are, but that's a whole other ball of wax together. smileshappy flowerforyou happy :banana:
LOLlaugh laugh laugh laugh I could read my ex's mind and he hated it.

He was always saying, "get out of my head woman"

LMAO!!! hahaha, yeah, I knew my ex fiance so well, I pin pointed things about himself he didn't even know many times. It wasn't out of spite just trying to help him see things the way they really were. He actually didn't know what to say, he was surprised about it really. smiles
LOL, If I had a nickle for everytime mine would come home saying "I shoulda listened to ya", i'd be able to afford my dream house. Aren't they amusing creatures? God love emdrinker

Well, I don't remember doing alot of laughing, LOL I do remember having alot of intimacy, lol giggles, its like everyday, like rabbits, lol hahaha, ok, I should not have said that, oh, I am sooo sorry, LOL hahahahahaha, who cares, hahahahalaugh :banana:

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:38 PM
WE even had a code phrase for it, We're going to get a coke, be right back, didn't come back for hours, hahahaha, giggles. um, ok, way too revealing here, ahahaahahaha ok off topic here, giggleslaugh laugh

REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:42 PM
offtopic rofl rofl rofl I don't mind

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:46 PM

offtopic rofl rofl rofl I don't mind

I do admit, he was good, when he pisses me off, I say I faked it, LOL cause I am mad at him, LOL but truth is, dude had skills, LOL and I ain't afriad to admit it, LOL laugh rofl rofl rofl

REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/23/08 09:02 PM


offtopic rofl rofl rofl I don't mind

I do admit, he was good, when he pisses me off, I say I faked it, LOL cause I am mad at him, LOL but truth is, dude had skills, LOL and I ain't afriad to admit it, LOL laugh rofl rofl rofl
Wish I could say that about mine, he basically needed a post-it on it with instructionslaugh

I think this has turned into a "Let's *itch about the ex's post"rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

lilwick86's photo
Sun 11/23/08 09:11 PM



offtopic rofl rofl rofl I don't mind

I do admit, he was good, when he pisses me off, I say I faked it, LOL cause I am mad at him, LOL but truth is, dude had skills, LOL and I ain't afriad to admit it, LOL laugh rofl rofl rofl
Wish I could say that about mine, he basically needed a post-it on it with instructionslaugh

I think this has turned into a "Let's *itch about the ex's post"rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Yup, I agree there, LMAO!! My ex lover had skills though too, and he was very daring too, LOL He had skills too. I admit it, however, I have to say, he bragged or should I say, was sore, about the skills I put on him, LOL hahahaha, wow, I'll never get past the 7 times a cumming thing hahahahahahahahaha, he was hurting for days and pissing blood, poor guy, I didn't know whether to feel bad or feel proud of myself ahahahahaha OH MY GOSH!!!! hahahahahaharofl rofl rofl rofl :banana: laugh laugh blushing bigsmile

REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/23/08 09:19 PM
I'd be willing to tolerate bad breathlaugh

certainchancer's photo
Sun 11/23/08 09:36 PM
A wife who won,t suck and swallow.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 11/23/08 11:57 PM
I'll tolerate just about anything other than being stupid or verbal/physical abuse.

The one thing I absolutely will not tolerate is someone who is a f*ckin nutcase.

keepthehope's photo
Mon 11/24/08 04:06 AM
I won't put up with being lied to, or being told I love you but you have to share 1st place in my life with my ex. I don't think so!