I know who is real and who is fake.But it dont really matter to me.I talk to the fake people and play along with them.

Aw, here's a mimosa Judy!

I just automatically assume everybody is fake. It makes things a lot easier.

I just smacked my funny bone, and it felt pretty real to ME!

I didn't find it to be so damn funny, either.

i thought i was the only one who thought that way!

my best advice if you're talking with someone for quite awhile is for you to cam with them.

it won't guarantee that they are good folk, but at least you'll be sure that they are accurately reflected in the current photos they have displayed.

i'd also ask for their address. tell them you want to send them a little something. when they get it, let them describe what it was to you, so you can be sure that they've given you a non-fictitious address.

^^^ forced me to cam with her when she first met me to verify I was real.

Just ask 'em...lol. In all seriousness, I wish I knew. If you figure out, will you let me know?

haha, and if i recall, i also got your address and sent you a canadian kit kat bar (for the wrapper).

it's a good thing if i ask you to cam. it means that i think you're so funny, smart, and cool that it's not possible for you to be real. andy, jack, and rick all fell into this category as well and now i count you as some of my very favourite friends.

I never got to cam with you...

but I did get you into bed the first time we met!!!

WOOT WOOT!!!!

As to knowing who they are? if so, that takes time and taking a chance. As far as pic's go. if you known them for a little while and feel comfortable. there is the cam and that alone with take care of it's self.

Wow how do you keep them all from killing each other?

Yep, you're right there, it's all about feeling comfortable and it's also taking a chance. It's a matter of trusting your own intstincts or intuition. If something doesn't feel right then by all means either make it right before you set any meetings up if possible or don't meet at all.

another good idea is to network with other profilers.

there's a lot of us forum posters who've met with each other, or know someone who's met with someone else.

it might be a good place to start.

well at least you're honest

I love it every time this question is asked. Some will say if they don't have a pic, they're a fake. And then some just post fake pix. Some are scammers & some are true blue sweethearts. Camming is good but the only way to find out if someone's real is to meet them. I've got a friend who met a chick whose pix were quite a few years old, she only cammed close to the camera so he couldn't see her body...she even lies about what she does for a living...it's always gonna be hit & miss...just trust your gut & good luck!

The way I see it, this is me, this is who and what I am, this is what I do. Take it or leave it, it makes no nevermind to me. Believe what you want.

Besides, who the hell else would wanna be me, anyway? I'm the only person who's any good at it!