Topic: chris
soldierboy127's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:48 PM
for 3 days now

lnghntr's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:50 PM
you have only talked to her for 3 days?

soldierboy127's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:50 PM
yes I will stop and let her wonder

no photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:51 PM
Let her call you

soldierboy127's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:52 PM
yes I have then she wanted to get to know a lil bit before we were suppose to be going our first
date with each other this weekend.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:52 PM
3 days???

Wow. That's an AWFULLY long time.

WTF

soldierboy127's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:52 PM
okay I will

lnghntr's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:53 PM
let it go....what have you lost????

Skad's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:57 PM
eh.. I don't get mad at guys, but there are some things they do and some ways they handle things that cause me to loose interest in them. Doesn't mean I'm mad, just not interested anymore.

lnghntr's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:59 PM
are ya mad at me????:cry:

Skad's photo
Fri 11/21/08 09:04 PM
nope.. :angel:

soldierboy127's photo
Fri 11/21/08 10:35 PM
give me some reason how a girl loose interest in a guy

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 11/21/08 10:51 PM

give me some reason how a girl loose interest in a guy


Not being able to type in English, for one thing.

Skad's photo
Sat 11/22/08 07:45 AM
Edited by Skad on Sat 11/22/08 07:46 AM
There are tons actually. Plus! On the computer, it's very easy to misinterpret what someone says and does. So it's important to be clear about viewpoints on different subjects.

Also, guys (and girls) over-generalize on the whole 'give her space' thing.

A girl absolutely LOVES attention. The only problem that arises involves the type of attention..

Turn-offs include topics that force the idea of a relationship with that girl too soon.

Turn-ons are based on all the other things a female is interested in. Take time to invest in that and you'll keep her interest.

Last but not least... Don't ever look at email and think to yourself, "I've got to ignore some of this so that she'll be more attracted to me." then disappear for two days. That's the quickest way to loose a girl's interest.

soldierboy127's photo
Sat 11/22/08 01:03 PM
yes girl do like alot of attention

Jodi22's photo
Sat 11/22/08 01:08 PM

yes girl do like alot of attention

Three days would not be considered a relationship so chill. There are millions of girls out there!!! She would be waiting for you to message or call if she was interested in getting to know you better. Cut your loses and find someone else to play with!

alicat4213's photo
Sat 11/22/08 01:11 PM
Edited by alicat4213 on Sat 11/22/08 01:14 PM
ummm she has no interest in you at all so give up you lose

soldierboy127's photo
Sat 11/22/08 01:12 PM
I will but I will only send her one more message
saiding are you still interested in me. After that if she dosen't send me a message back I will move on to someone else.

Jodi22's photo
Sat 11/22/08 01:15 PM

I will but I will only send her one more message
saiding are you still interested in me. After that if she dosen't send me a message back I will move on to someone else.

Consider saying something like "I would like to get to know you if your are still interested. It is up to you, let me know!"

You will not sound like a stalker, she knows you are interested, and she has a bit of control. Slow and easy sweet! No response would indicate she oppted out!

soldierboy127's photo
Sat 11/22/08 01:15 PM
okay I will. Now I find someone else. But it's her lost.