I just really upset at myself with life and being single.........How do you cope beening single or trying find a new friend to hangout with? Is there is help for me or idea what do being single. Is there any one out there in Cleveland ohio want give me good thought how to cope with my problem?

Good luck this go around

Why are you upset with your life and being single? It seems that your validation comes from being in a relationship. This should not happen- You need to be happy with your life- You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else- I'm sure you've heard that.

Think about all the good things in your life- your family, friends, job, interests. These are the foundation of your life- Enjoy them- the relationship will come when you least expect it. Give it and you some time.

Woah! First off... Slow down... Catch your breath. There is nothing wrong with being single. It sounds like you might want to try being okay with that before you think about being in a relationship.

You're totally cute. Hang in here and chat and get your MOJO. Then, go conquer the world. You'll be fine. I guarantee it.

I've been single for nearly 2 years and the only way I've kept myself afloat is really close friends. I'm lacking on the personal end but I stay busy.


Just make sure you stay busy, all that idle time builds up to equal one mass ball of thought. Its up to you on where you aim it. Be confident and outgoing I suppose. Instead of making threads like this, make threads like, I'm new, single, and definitely looking. Show the aggressive side, there's nothing to fear here that's why its an internet site.!!

Good luck on your journeys and its only a matter of time before you find someone to get to know.

You have alot going for ya!!!Be patient youll get there!

It sounds like you have a very loving heart..... Life will teach you patience. Sometimes it's a hard lesson too learn, but it get easier with time. Keep a loving heart.

it will do no good to find someone to be with
until you can be with your self

it is hard to love another if
you do not love yourself first


but what do i know

i am just another worthless nut about 40 miles away

People to hang out with hardly ever want to just hang out. Entertainment is the key to success, find something entertaining and have fun!!!!

My personal opinion is if you are not happy being alone with yoruslef then being with a guy wont fix it. You have to really like yoruself and be comfortable in yrou own shoes first! Not sure if that is any help...

I Know How U Feel, For Real!