Well we met up on Wednesday after he got off work. In conversation and in a light hearted way, I brought up Sunday morning. Apparently, he don't remember saying that he was fine with only two hours of sleep. He found out though that he shouldn't have stayed up so late, because he got up for work late the next day. Things are back to where they were before that night.

guess I didnt expand on it as much as others, but glad to know I am not alone thinking this way JAG

I've learned in my short 35 years to take people at their word, if they are lying to you, it's their issue not yours.

STOP being so "I wanna fix things and make them perfect" that's a pretty high cliff to fall from when it happens...

Believe me I know things aren't going to be perfect and I wasn't trying to fix them to make them perfect.

Maybe not. But saying something about it more than once makes it sound like you are trying to " mother " him.

Personally...I get all the " mothering " I need from my Mom.

Unless of course I am sick. Then I'll take all I can get..lol

Background Info: My bf, Jeff and I have only been dating for about a month, but we've known each other atleast 8 years. Over the years we've lost contact with each other, but recently met back up. I invited him to my cousin's Halloween party and since that night we've been a couple.

Last weekend, I was staying at his place after we went out for a few drinks. I told him around 2am that I felt back because he had to be up at 6:30 for work. Around 4:30am, I again mentioned feelin bad because he had to work in a few hours. He got upset and said fine he'd just go to bed. So he rolled over and went to bed. I couldn't sleep and when his alarm went off at 5:30 I left. Other than a short phone call yesterday, we haven't really talked since then.

There's tons of questions going through my head. First, should he have gotten upset for me being concerned that he wasn't getting much sleep? Am I making too much out of something? It just hasnt' been the same the last few days compared to the night of my cousin's party and the weeks after it.