yup ,,that's what you said jean ,,,i do concurr

well you all have some good things to say, but emotionally unavailable
people are in there in case you need to read it in print. they are
available, you just need to find the key to unlock them.

Women say they want honesty from men, then ask a question like this and
believe men when they lie about it. Men are not sensitive, we do not
cry, and if one tells you they do, it is;
A.) either they want to get in your drawers, or;
B.) They are gay!!!!!

Fanta which one are you since you cried on my shoulder last night,LMAO

Fanta, can't agree with you on this.
I am sensitive, do cry
Yes, I want & enjoy sex, but can date & cuddle, even sleep with a lady &
not have sex.
When you have walk'd my trail, you would understand.
Porfile clearly states, NOT looking for a relationship.
Do enjoy friends

Awwww now that has been said many times Fanta but hell truth is men
actually want the same thing as most women. But hell now they are not
gonna turn a bedroom romp down shsssssssssh for they can keep there
emotions out of the way when it comes to sex. But..... now women, most
can not do that yeah I said most for some will sleep with others for the
pure pleasures of sex and not think anything about it but most take it
emotionally when they sleep with a man.

And to kill your theory men do cry and it does not mean in any shape or
form they are gay just human.

Back-Up,,,

I dont want to talk about it!...

Hummm Fanta thought that was our line we say about when a guy ask us
what the problem was Damn seee men are
starting to even think like women do lol

:{:::::::::::: waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA

And for your records ice, Im A)

Jane i remained emotionally unavailable for a very long time after the
WASbund because i did not want to find another abuser. Many times they
say a victim of domestic violence will find yet another abuser. I waited
and remained very much alone dating no one for five years. When i met my
now ex (from hell) he hid the abusive side until i got everything i had
moved here to the deep south and then the abuse started full force. I
put up with his crap for 4 years but the day he finally beat me i left
him. I have been single now for the last seven years. I am comfortable
with this as i have a small child with special needs. He is the most
important thing in my entire life and my entire world. I am not in any
rush to just drag home any man and strongly believe if god brings a good
man into my life then fine. If not thats ok too!
I dont NEED a man, i dont NEED another abuser to harm my son or me. I
live just fine, support myself and my child without the help of welfare
and i am proud of this too. If a good man comes along he will.

I can dance in and out of being emotionally unavailable...

My ex fit all those categories, and more...

Being out of that now for a year and a half, I find I am still learning
to be silent, with myself, and not wanting anything to do with ego
trips, manipulators, or anyone needing a regular pat on the head.

I don't know what the answer will be.. But, I allow into my space only a
handful. Takes alot more to get closer than that, and stay there, lol.

I have been emotionally unavailable before...it's a survival mechanism.
Gave me time to regroup, concentrate on other things in my life and gain
new perspesctive.

I still do this, sheila.

I don't live by it, I don't think. But, living an entire life with it, I
think it's just become part of who I am now.

make sense?