It always makes my day to be going about my own biz then start to get insulted for being fat...you know I spent pretty much my entire life being ridiculed for my weight. Now for the most part I don't a have problem with it and don't let comments bother me.

Then there are days like today when someone is cold, direct, and unflinching in the delivery of the insults out of left field...
Well so much for me playing any of the games that ask what's the nicest feature of the person above you or is the person above you hot.

I knew to expect noes and the like for the majority I just didn't expect to hear "i'd be afraid of you on top of me" ...as an example of one of many insults i received today in the games section...YAY shallow *****es...pardon the language but whatever I feel sorry for the poor girl she must hate herself pretty bad to need to belittle people online just to feel better.

Kaysler that was inappropriate and mean, I'm sorry someone was rude to you...

i hear you it pisses me off that people have to put others down to make themselves feel better.

Don't apologize for them.
It means something that you cared enough to reply though thank you.

Thats why I stay out of those forums.... people are rude and hurtful for no reason.

you're welcome..

lesson learned I suppose...

I here ya brother. It didn't take me long to realize I'd feel better if I just stayed outa their games. The majority of people here are very nice. Hang in there.

DON'T PUT UP WITH IT...WE HAVE REPORT BUTTONS AND THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO BASHING OR DEGRADING OF THE MEMBERS ON THIS SITE.
Sorry about the caps but I am so tired of the childish crap that goes on here. We want a loving,caring, friendly site here and I feel if there are those that would rather be rude, mean and hurtful then they should just move on to sites that put up with the crap and leave us be. I am so sorry this has happened to you, but as I said..we have mods that will take care of that for you

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already done twice. doubtful much will happen rarely anything does.

It will be taken care of...they DO NOT put up with it here, sometimes it just takes a bit for them to get the report

I'm sorry hun,people care sometimes so cold,I have never hada problem with my weight,but my daughter does struggle,unfortunately shes tall and going to be a good size woman,I can never call someone the f-a-t word.is just rude & hurtful...I'm short and average I guess...but at any rate...I'm so sorry..You look just fine tome hun,there are the 1 with the problem,who need to insult someone else in order to feel better about themselfs..that even happens to me more often then most think..dealt with it all my life for ine reason or another...HUGS...

Well with the other person having over 7k posts and a year here I'm pretty sure i'll be told i took it too personally and it was just a joke and she'll be told to play nice...which i don't much care if anything happens from it. doesn't really make me feel better ya know...

Knowing there are kind people that are responsive and supportive of someone that is miffed by someone does help though =)

I like big boys....

Who the f*ck cares what stupid people say???

F*ck 'em....

Sorry, I'm Lily and I have a "being too direct issue"

"Hi Lily"

I need meetings I think....

once i got rated a 3.8 on a scale of 1-10 rate the person above you at first it hurt my feelings but then i got to thinking... not too bad coming from a 1.8 eh? those games are pretty usless cause usually everyone is a 10 lmao! facts are there are gonna be azzes everywhere let them live their misserable lives i say

I seam to have the same problem only for me it's because I'm not big enough. I have always been thin and there's not a fkning thing I can do about it. I guess thats why I like my dog beter then most people.