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Topic: Do you hold a grudge
Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/17/08 04:36 PM
or forgive and forget?

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Mon 11/17/08 04:43 PM
Usually forgive...forgetting that's way difficult to do.

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 11/17/08 04:45 PM
My grudge is too full of tools and stuff. I can't even get my car in there. ohwell

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 11/17/08 04:51 PM
mad I can hold a grudge til the bitter endmad

purposebuilt's photo
Mon 11/17/08 04:57 PM
It depends on who it is and what they did. I have zero tolerance for people that call theirselves you're friend until you turn you're back. Cross me once you're a chickensh!t for life.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/17/08 04:58 PM
The Grudge was a good movie.

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Mon 11/17/08 04:58 PM
why hold a grudge it keeps me mad and un focused. so i let it go and move on . besides i screw up at times my self. drinks

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Mon 11/17/08 05:00 PM
it depends on what you have done

hunky62's photo
Mon 11/17/08 05:02 PM
Edited by hunky62 on Mon 11/17/08 05:04 PM
Forgive yes...forget...not so fast.

"fool me once...shame on you...fool me twice...shame on me"

Sorry...had to edit...had a George Bush moment there...ugh

franshade's photo
Mon 11/17/08 05:03 PM
I forgive, rarely forget, but wont use it against the party.

Out of mind, out of sight, out my life waving

Negative actions beget negative results jmo


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Mon 11/17/08 05:44 PM
I may forgive
I never forget

that way I know bull$#!% when I see it
even if it's coming a mile away

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Mon 11/17/08 05:58 PM
I was only blessed with four cheeks with which to "turn"...after that...you're pretty much invisible in my book...

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Mon 11/17/08 06:03 PM
depends on the issue, but i can

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Mon 11/17/08 06:05 PM
It depends on what they did.

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Mon 11/17/08 06:07 PM
Edited by Kaysler on Mon 11/17/08 06:09 PM
HORRIBLY!
i will def forgive MOST things but once someone TRULY crosses my lines I will hold that grudge till I pass lol.


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afterthought- as I see it the worst thing to be is forgotten, for you to not matter so I will consciously just cut someone out of my life and thoughts if they have really wronged my family, friends or self(more forgiving when it comes to dealings with me than fam and friends)

beachbum069's photo
Mon 11/17/08 06:08 PM
I can forgive most anything. I don't forget anything.


What is this topic about?

kayak69's photo
Mon 11/17/08 06:12 PM
Just over 10 years ago I lost my dad to cancer at age 59. One of the things I learned is, Life is just to damn short to hold a grudge, I have more important things to focus my energy on than a stupid grudge.

I can always forgive, but it can be hard to forget.

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 11/17/08 06:12 PM
well that mostly matters on the who & what it involes.but mostly I have found that its better to let it go & make them think your going to to something...hahahaha

BonnyMiss's photo
Mon 11/17/08 06:17 PM
Forgive yes, forget......... not so easy !

Nohottiesheresrsly's photo
Mon 11/17/08 06:34 PM
I am the grudge!

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