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| Topic: DUDE! why are you so Sensitive???! | |
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OK, so I'm "talking to" this guy who I met after a club. He lives in another state from me, which really isn't that bad because it's only like a 2-hr drive, but sometimes I'll say something to him (and I'm only playing!) 'cause I like to have fun and play around and dude takes everything so Personally! I'm like, chill out. Darn! Aren't I supposed to be the emotional one??? Ha! Far from it!
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What?
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 Like wow dude
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What? she teases and his feeling get hurt |
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What? Huh? Maybe you should find less effeminate men for which to tease relentlessly? |
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OK, so I'm "talking to" this guy who I met after a club. He lives in another state from me, which really isn't that bad because it's only like a 2-hr drive, but sometimes I'll say something to him (and I'm only playing!) 'cause I like to have fun and play around and dude takes everything so Personally! I'm like, chill out. Darn! Aren't I supposed to be the emotional one??? Ha! Far from it!
if i had a friend, whose friendship i valued and wished to keep, and i knew that they were serious-minded and took everything at face value, i'd make sure that i didn't play around with what i wanted to say and would instead say what i mean. |
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What? Huh? Maybe you should find less effeminate men for which to tease relentlessly? I don't tease him... I'm a sweetheart. 
Really. He just gets upset at the simplest things! You want examples?? |
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damn sounds sprung on your ass lol
 
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What? Huh? Maybe you should find less effeminate men for which to tease relentlessly? I don't tease him... I'm a sweetheart.
Really. He just gets upset at the simplest things! You want examples?? Yes, I do believe that is what "what?" usually infers, a lack of understanding what you mean.... |
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 OK, so I'm "talking to" this guy who I met after a club. He lives in another state from me, which really isn't that bad because it's only like a 2-hr drive, but sometimes I'll say something to him (and I'm only playing!) 'cause I like to have fun and play around and dude takes everything so Personally! I'm like, chill out. Darn! Aren't I supposed to be the emotional one??? Ha! Far from it!
if i had a friend, whose friendship i valued and wished to keep, and i knew that they were serious-minded and took everything at face value, i'd make sure that i didn't play around with what i wanted to say and would instead say what i mean. ...Or, how about you loosen up and realize life's too darn short to be taking EVERYTHING to heart. That's how people go crazy- letting every little action touch their every emotion til
they cant take it anymore!!! I love life, and I'm going to enjoy it... |
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Then OBVIOUSLY this is NOT the man for you. Move on.
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Edited by
papersmile
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Mon 11/17/08 08:22 AM
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OK, so I'm "talking to" this guy who I met after a club. He lives in another state from me, which really isn't that bad because it's only like a 2-hr drive, but sometimes I'll say something to him (and I'm only playing!) 'cause I like to have fun and play around and dude takes everything so Personally! I'm like, chill out. Darn! Aren't I supposed to be the emotional one??? Ha! Far from it!
if i had a friend, whose friendship i valued and wished to keep, and i knew that they were serious-minded and took everything at face value, i'd make sure that i didn't play around with what i wanted to say and would instead say what i mean. ...Or, how about you loosen up and realize life's too darn short to be taking EVERYTHING to heart. That's how people go crazy- letting every little action touch their every emotion til
they cant take it anymore!!! I love life, and I'm going to enjoy it... or how about you stop trying to change everyone to fit the way that you want them to be, and start trying to compromise, or at least empathize with people? |
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Ok then.
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OK, so I'm "talking to" this guy who I met after a club. He lives in another state from me, which really isn't that bad because it's only like a 2-hr drive, but sometimes I'll say something to him (and I'm only playing!) 'cause I like to have fun and play around and dude takes everything so Personally! I'm like, chill out. Darn! Aren't I supposed to be the emotional one??? Ha! Far from it!
if i had a friend, whose friendship i valued and wished to keep, and i knew that they were serious-minded and took everything at face value, i'd make sure that i didn't play around with what i wanted to say and would instead say what i mean. ...Or, how about you loosen up and realize life's too darn short to be taking EVERYTHING to heart. That's how people go crazy- letting every little action touch their every emotion til
they cant take it anymore!!! I love life, and I'm going to enjoy it... or how about you stop trying to change everyone to fit the way that you want them to be, and start trying to compromise, or at least empathsize with people? That sounds like it might be too reasonable. Don't forget, most people say, "I am who I am and take me for who I am 'cus I'm not chaging for anyone". These are the single folks who are single for a reason. Life is not about compromise for some folks. It's not...
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What? Huh? Maybe you should find less effeminate men for which to tease relentlessly? I don't tease him... I'm a sweetheart.
Really. He just gets upset at the simplest things! You want examples?? Yes, I do believe that is what "what?" usually infers, a lack of understanding what you mean.... Alright, alright. Since I'm obviously the only one who's had a senstive man... 
So I'm in the process of buying a home--I close tomorrow, or Thursday 'cause the darn agent messed up!...'nother story-- and he says, "Baby I don't get to see you hardly at all. I miss you man. Can I move in with you?" and I said "Hell naw! What I look like having some man come and take my house from me!" And I said it in a I'm-playing with all the cursing, but na babes you can't stay with me and he gets all loud, "Man why you gotta treat me like that? Why are you so mean? Damn, I would pay some of the bills, you know that..." OMG! Are you serious? Chill out. |
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Okie dokie...
I get it. I'm outta here... |
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What? Huh? Maybe you should find less effeminate men for which to tease relentlessly? I don't tease him... I'm a sweetheart.
Really. He just gets upset at the simplest things! You want examples?? Yes, I do believe that is what "what?" usually infers, a lack of understanding what you mean.... Alright, alright. Since I'm obviously the only one who's had a senstive man...
So I'm in the process of buying a home--I close tomorrow, or Thursday 'cause the darn agent messed up!...'nother story-- and he says, "Baby I don't get to see you hardly at all. I miss you man. Can I move in with you?" and I said "Hell naw! What I look like having some man come and take my house from me!" And I said it in a I'm-playing with all the cursing, but na babes you can't stay with me and he gets all loud, "Man why you gotta treat me like that? Why are you so mean? Damn, I would pay some of the bills, you know that..." OMG! Are you serious? Chill out. sounds to me like he's a bit of a mooch.. and especially if you just met him... I think you did the right thing telling him no.. all playing aside.. a guy who asks a girl he just met to move in with her is generally a mooch and you don't need a mooch. |
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OK, so I'm "talking to" this guy who I met after a club. He lives in another state from me, which really isn't that bad because it's only like a 2-hr drive, but sometimes I'll say something to him (and I'm only playing!) 'cause I like to have fun and play around and dude takes everything so Personally! I'm like, chill out. Darn! Aren't I supposed to be the emotional one??? Ha! Far from it!
if i had a friend, whose friendship i valued and wished to keep, and i knew that they were serious-minded and took everything at face value, i'd make sure that i didn't play around with what i wanted to say and would instead say what i mean. ...Or, how about you loosen up and realize life's too darn short to be taking EVERYTHING to heart. That's how people go crazy- letting every little action touch their every emotion til
they cant take it anymore!!! I love life, and I'm going to enjoy it... or how about you stop trying to change everyone to fit the way that you want them to be, and start trying to compromise, or at least empathize with people? Oh gosh! Are you serious? I don't want to change anyone. What does that do for me??? HA! I love people. They're interesting. If everyone were one way that would be boring... Oh so boring. 
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What? Huh? Maybe you should find less effeminate men for which to tease relentlessly? I don't tease him... I'm a sweetheart.
Really. He just gets upset at the simplest things! You want examples?? Yes, I do believe that is what "what?" usually infers, a lack of understanding what you mean.... Alright, alright. Since I'm obviously the only one who's had a senstive man...
So I'm in the process of buying a home--I close tomorrow, or Thursday 'cause the darn agent messed up!...'nother story-- and he says, "Baby I don't get to see you hardly at all. I miss you man. Can I move in with you?" and I said "Hell naw! What I look like having some man come and take my house from me!" And I said it in a I'm-playing with all the cursing, but na babes you can't stay with me and he gets all loud, "Man why you gotta treat me like that? Why are you so mean? Damn, I would pay some of the bills, you know that..." OMG! Are you serious? Chill out. sounds to me like he's a bit of a mooch.. and especially if you just met him... I think you did the right thing telling him no.. all playing aside.. a guy who asks a girl he just met to move in with her is generally a mooch and you don't need a mooch. Amen! And lawd knows I'm not taking care of a grown man! |
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Sounds insecure and unstable. If you wanna pursue it further, more power to ya.
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