Topic: Stuck in a Rut
MimitheGreat's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:47 PM
So I went to dinner with my best friend tonight and she said that although I'm 29, I come off more like I'm 40. I'll be the first to admit that I've been through a lot in life and that has matured me but her point was that yes I'm more mature but she says I've aged inside.

I realize I'm in a rut but I'm unsure of how to get out of it. I'm going out of my gourd and don't know what to do. I want to feel young, light and free but I don't know how. Any suggestions?frustrated

beauty314's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:07 PM
add some bass to your car stereo system and lift weights three times a week..always works for meflowerforyou

May777's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:08 PM
was your childhood ever carefree ? think back to a time in your life when you were and find that little girl in you again and spoil her rotten,.. bigsmile

maraskia74's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:09 PM
do what makes you happy

lnghntr's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:10 PM
shift into 4x4 low and give it hell,hey May,how ya doin...Hi Beaut

May777's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:14 PM

shift into 4x4 low and give it hell,hey May,how ya doin...Hi Beaut


how`s the saddles` blazing ??? :tongue:

May777's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:15 PM


shift into 4x4 low and give it hell,hey May,how ya doin...Hi Beaut


how`s the saddles` blazing ??? :tongue:


noway I don`t know,..first thing that came to my mind,..:tongue:

beauty314's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:21 PM

shift into 4x4 low and give it hell,hey May,how ya doin...Hi Beaut

Hi sweetieflowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 08:25 PM
I want to feel young, light and free but I don't know how. Any suggestions?frustrated


My mom says the way to feel young is to not try. Just have fun at the age you are now. Do fun things, things you really enjoy. She says if others see you having fun and laughing and having a good time they will then see you as young.

Then when people start looking at you as a younger person you in essence become younger and you feel younger.

She basically said you become younger by accepting and acting your age and enjoying yourself without the pressure of trying to feel young.

Sorry if I didn't articulate that well. I hope you know what I mean.

Articulate....my new word for the day. I just used it in a sentence. Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. I got smarter today.


keepthehope's photo
Sun 11/16/08 09:57 PM
Find a child, yours or not, and spend a day with them, watching movies (their kind like cartoons), play with them. Kids have a tendency to make you see things through a different light. They make you feel like anything is possible again, even if only for a little while. Then just remember to lighten up a little, have fun, laugh a lot!!rofl