Topic: today...
CoffeeSonata's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:00 PM
I called a guy from here that gave me his number. He said he would call me back in an hour, and never did. How important is it to you, when meeting someone new, that they do what they say?
How can a person expect you to trust them or even bbegin to trust them if they dont do what they say? Its monumentally important to me that i do as i say & they do too.

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:02 PM



I don't sit by the phone waiting thats for sure. Just say next if it bothers you.

Maybe he had some things to do and it took longer than he thought.? Girls have a tendency to think the worse in a situation.


yeah but no phone call to say, "hey, this is going to take longer than I thought...."


How long have you known him? Are you married to him? Then why do you EXPECT anything from him?

People are arseholes, you should know that by now honey. Just move on. : )


I expect people to do what they say.
and I am not married to A LOT of people.
what you're saying is I should have no expectation?

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:03 PM

I called a guy from here that gave me his number. He said he would call me back in an hour, and never did. How important is it to you, when meeting someone new, that they do what they say?
How can a person expect you to trust them or even bbegin to trust them if they dont do what they say? Its monumentally important to me that i do as i say & they do too.


yeah that's kind of where I'm at.

hellkitten54's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:06 PM




I don't sit by the phone waiting thats for sure. Just say next if it bothers you.

Maybe he had some things to do and it took longer than he thought.? Girls have a tendency to think the worse in a situation.


yeah but no phone call to say, "hey, this is going to take longer than I thought...."


How long have you known him? Are you married to him? Then why do you EXPECT anything from him?

People are arseholes, you should know that by now honey. Just move on. : )


I expect people to do what they say.
and I am not married to A LOT of people.
what you're saying is I should have no expectation?


Sweetie, people don't always do what they say, thats my point. You can never ever trust that people will do what they say, because you will be let down a whole lot in life.

no photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:08 PM
I just realized I myself was supposed to get a phone call 2 hours ago too. Oh well. I guess it's no use worrying over something we have no control over eh? I always will listen to an apology or excuse, but doesn't mean I buy it every time. Second chance I might give, but after that....it's over.

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:08 PM

Sweetie, people don't always do what they say, thats my point. You can never ever trust that people will do what they say, because you will be let down a whole lot in life.


I'm not depressed over it or anything I just don't understand it.

scotty1964's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:08 PM
was that Alisha? hi sweetie,
and on the subject, that guy who didnt call is out! thats it.....flowerforyou

CoffeeSonata's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:32 PM
I called a guy from here that gave me his number. He said he would call me back in an hour, and never did. How important is it to you, when meeting someone new, that they do what they say?
How can a person expect you to trust them or even bbegin to trust them if they dont do what they say? Its monumentally important to me that i do as i say & they do too.
yeah that's kind of where I'm at.
flowerforyou

scotty1964's photo
Sun 11/16/08 06:59 PM
i would so say hi to hellkitten too.and like i said get rid of that guy.:wink:

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Sun 11/16/08 07:01 PM

I called a guy from here that gave me his number.
He said he would call me back in an hour, and never did.
How important is it to you, when meeting someone new, that they do what they say?


It's very important if it was your first contact.

If he ditches you on the first phone call (without good reason) then how will he treat you later.

Maybe he is trying to lay hard to get.

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Sun 11/16/08 07:13 PM
If you expect nothing from anybody, you’re never disappointed.

alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:18 PM
Don't mean nothin'.

Face-to-face means something.

I think this is nothing more than a pastime for most. Don't take anything like that personally. And remember, this is SIMS for many.

no photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:49 PM
I've learned never to call a person twice in a row without them calling you...








just sayin

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:56 PM

I've learned never to call a person twice in a row without them calling you...








just sayin


And then you give another reason. Noted.

AzgirlinMO's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:58 PM
Would say....dont wait on him. You are GORGEOUS...you could have anyone you want...move on and let them come to you...but stay on your toes...good luck :)

no photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:17 PM
I wouldn't wait around for him to call, but if he's already not doing what he says, chances are he won't later on either.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:23 PM

I called a guy from here that gave me his number.
He said he would call me back in an hour, and never did.
How important is it to you, when meeting someone new, that they do what they say?


its pretty damned important to me. but then again... i don't allow myself to get hung up on it. i dont like it but then i figure if he's such a genius as to not call me back then i remove his number and move on. if he calls me one day... then its on him to make that effort to get to know me.

wow.. i'm a one shot kinda girl lol i never realized that.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:39 PM
And of course...he was probably really " hot " right?

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 11/16/08 09:10 PM

And of course...he was probably really " hot " right?


You're usually pretty civil so I won't get too mad about this but I'm really kind of tired of people making that assumption of me. I don't deserve it.


this just in, he called...busy Sunday was the reason...don't know where I'm at on it yet.

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 09:22 PM
I am going through the same thing right now. And I know he had plans all weekend, but damn it upsets me that I haven't heard from him. He didn't promise that he would call.

What bothers me even more is how upset I am by it. How do you start a relationship with someone with no expectations?

This freakin sucks.