Community > General Discussion

Topic: Well..........
MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Sun 11/16/08 11:39 AM
was this what you were talking about last night??? Yes ADG. And I still haven't told anyone in the real world yet. I'm a little scared to do it still. well you have us here to talk too... I am a mom of 2 great kids so if you need anything just ask, yell, scream. text, email i think you know what i mean i hope this is a good thing for you Thanks ADG. Right now, I just want the toilet to stop calling my name

alisha07 Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 4265	Sun 11/16/08 11:40 AM
congrats :) aww.. im excited for you.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Sun 11/16/08 11:40 AM
was this what you were talking about last night??? Yes ADG. And I still haven't told anyone in the real world yet. I'm a little scared to do it still. well you have us here to talk too... I am a mom of 2 great kids so if you need anything just ask, yell, scream. text, email i think you know what i mean i hope this is a good thing for you Thanks ADG. Right now, I just want the toilet to stop calling my name saltine crackers and tums they are great

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sun 11/16/08 11:49 AM
BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Sun 11/16/08 12:00 PM
Thanks everyone for the congrats and support. I know I'm definitely going to need it! I am scared about telling my family and the father to be, but I know once I get that over with, I won't have to deal with that issue anymore. The biggest thing that is scaring me the most though is having this baby at 37 (I'll be 38 when it's born). I've heard a lot of negative things about having a child after 35. So if anyone knows of information about this, or any good sites to go on please let me know. I can say one good thing about this though.... MY BOOBS ARE HUGE! I can't even see my feet any more!

don1949 Joined Thu 08/28/08 Posts: 232	Sun 11/16/08 12:05 PM
My youngst daughter was born when I was 36 and my wife was also 36. She is a healthy 23 year old now. Maybe things will turn out well for you also

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Sun 11/16/08 12:06 PM
Thanks everyone for the congrats and support. I know I'm definitely going to need it! I am scared about telling my family and the father to be, but I know once I get that over with, I won't have to deal with that issue anymore. The biggest thing that is scaring me the most though is having this baby at 37 (I'll be 38 when it's born). I've heard a lot of negative things about having a child after 35. So if anyone knows of information about this, or any good sites to go on please let me know. I can say one good thing about this though.... MY BOOBS ARE HUGE! got to love the boobs.... Your doctor will let you know all the pos and neg about getting pregnant after 35... the 5 of women after 35 who have a rough time are those who dont take care of themselves,,,,just eat good take your prenatal vitamins and drink lots of fluids...you will do fine... http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/14332_1155.asp http://womenshealth.aetna.com/WH/ihtWH/r.W===23/st.36127/t.36231.html these will help

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sun 11/16/08 12:06 PM
congradulations

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Sun 11/16/08 12:07 PM
Carmen...I think telling the father to be is the next step and quick! Your family shouldn't come before him. He's going to need time to get over the shock of all this just like you are. A baby! Good luck to you! I'm just an email away if you ever need someone to talk to.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Sun 11/16/08 12:08 PM
congradulations Thanks for the info ADG Thanks Tina

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 12:10 PM
Congratulations on your beautiful new life! Motherhood is the ultimate high! Be excited and don't let anything get in the way of what should be the happiest time of your life!!!

Want2B5ft Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 1267	Sun 11/16/08 12:12 PM
I agree - you need to tell the father before your family. If it is a "mingle" baby, good chance he already knows or has an idea if he pays attention to the forums. He is/will be just as scared as you are. Prayers and hugs coming your way for the best possible outcome.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Sun 11/16/08 12:15 PM
I plan on telling him today. He had to work last night, and is sleeping now so I can't do it until this evening. And as far as him seeing this thread, there's a slim chance that's going to happen cause he deleted his profile.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Sun 11/16/08 12:20 PM
congratulations...the boob thing is wonderful isn't it

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Sun 11/16/08 12:21 PM
congratulations...the boob thing is wonderful isn't it yeah it is

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 11/16/08 12:23 PM
Thanks everyone for the congrats and support. I know I'm definitely going to need it! I am scared about telling my family and the father to be, but I know once I get that over with, I won't have to deal with that issue anymore. The biggest thing that is scaring me the most though is having this baby at 37 (I'll be 38 when it's born). I've heard a lot of negative things about having a child after 35. So if anyone knows of information about this, or any good sites to go on please let me know. I can say one good thing about this though.... MY BOOBS ARE HUGE! I can't even see my feet any more! My mother had me when she was 42 years old. My sister-in-law had her son (my nephew) when she was 45. My uncle was born to my grandmother when she was 41. Besides me, all are healthy happy and stable people.... 2 out of 3 ain't bad. You will be a wonderful mother, many many blessings. If you have a girl will you name it Lily???

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Sun 11/16/08 12:23 PM
if i can ask how far along are you?????

Want2B5ft Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 1267	Sun 11/16/08 12:24 PM
I plan on telling him today. He had to work last night, and is sleeping now so I can't do it until this evening. And as far as him seeing this thread, there's a slim chance that's going to happen cause he deleted his profile. You have a big support system here. Know that everyone here will be sending you their best. I have to work tonight, but, I will be sending prayers your way.

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Sun 11/16/08 12:32 PM
I plan on telling him today. He had to work last night, and is sleeping now so I can't do it until this evening. And as far as him seeing this thread, there's a slim chance that's going to happen cause he deleted his profile. I'm sure he'll be as excited and as happy as I would be!!! This is a WONDERFUL time for 2 people to share!!! Congratulations!!!!!!

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Sun 11/16/08 12:37 PM
I plan on telling him today. He had to work last night, and is sleeping now so I can't do it until this evening. And as far as him seeing this thread, there's a slim chance that's going to happen cause he deleted his profile. I'm sure he'll be as excited and as happy as I would be!!! This is a WONDERFUL time for 2 people to share!!! Congratulations!!!!!! Thank you