Topic: how do you know if you are in love or
Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:10 AM
just in love with the thought of being in love. I realize that at my age I should have figured this out, and I am certain that I am not in love. But I sure as heck am in love with the idea of finding someone to be in love with, so I need to just calm down and wait for that to happen.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:12 AM
Quit bothering about it, I've found most people that are in love...didn't find love, it found them.

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Sun 11/16/08 07:16 AM
Concentrate on finding new friends and it will happen...stop trying so hard..we are all searching for the same thing....allow it to happen, don't force it...allow it to surprise you the way it supposed to...have fun and good luckflowers flowers flowers

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Sun 11/16/08 07:16 AM
I have never been in love with anyone. I have loved plenty. I think the difference is I never fully trusted anyone. Thats what lacked to move to the next level. Just my experienceflowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:17 AM
Got my love yesterday. He hasn't been my bf in a long while now but, more importantly, he's my FRIEND!

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:20 AM
My fear is that I am going to rush into this relationship because of how nice it is to be in a relationship again. That isn't fair to either of us.

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Sun 11/16/08 07:24 AM

My fear is that I am going to rush into this relationship because of how nice it is to be in a relationship again. That isn't fair to either of us.

Don't be afraid. drinker

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Sun 11/16/08 07:24 AM
Just dont overthink it because that will not be good either...go with your gut feelings on the situation. At the very least try to make a friend w/ this man.

kboysmom's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:25 AM
I have met alot of good friends on this site and just when I was ready to delete it and give up I met an amazing man. So just keep tring and dont be afraid to fall in love...I was and now Im so happy that I gave it one more chance. When you do find it...you will know it. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you too will find your true love! It takes meeting all the wrong people first to know when you do meet the right one..that he is really it! Good luck! I met mine on here so keep looking.flowerforyou

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:28 AM

I have met alot of good friends on this site and just when I was ready to delete it and give up I met an amazing man. So just keep tring and dont be afraid to fall in love...I was and now Im so happy that I gave it one more chance. When you do find it...you will know it. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you too will find your true love! It takes meeting all the wrong people first to know when you do meet the right one..that he is really it! Good luck! I met mine on here so keep looking.flowerforyou


Thanks, and congratulations.

FETTS61's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:29 AM
Edited by FETTS61 on Sun 11/16/08 07:30 AM

I have met alot of good friends on this site and just when I was ready to delete it and give up I met an amazing man. So just keep tring and dont be afraid to fall in love...I was and now Im so happy that I gave it one more chance. When you do find it...you will know it. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you too will find your true love! It takes meeting all the wrong people first to know when you do meet the right one..that he is really it! Good luck! I met mine on here so keep looking.flowerforyou


bigsmile flowerforyou
im happy for you carrie!!

LouLou2's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:30 AM
Love comes with time. The only way to 'find' it, is to take the risk and invest the time. What you are feeling are what I think of as the seeds of love... or the potential for love. Given the right circumstances, it could become love. No way of knowing for sure at this point, but isn't it worth taking the time to find out?

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:35 AM
You are right. Gonna take this one day at a time and see what happens. What else can I do? Thanks everyone.

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Sun 11/16/08 07:40 AM

You are right. Gonna take this one day at a time and see what happens. What else can I do? Thanks everyone.
Just smile, have fun and enjoy life...it will come to you when it is supposed to

LouLou2's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:41 AM
Good luck, Sweetie! (oh, and hey...I love the Steelers, too...LOL)

FETTS61's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:41 AM

You are right. Gonna take this one day at a time and see what happens. What else can I do? Thanks everyone.


maybe its something to do with the steelers....lollaugh j/kflowerforyou

go browns:banana:

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Sun 11/16/08 07:46 AM

My fear is that I am going to rush into this relationship because of how nice it is to be in a relationship again. That isn't fair to either of us.


I agree with your line of thinking because I have the exact same thoughts. It's a scary thing, actually giving in and just going with the flow.

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Sun 11/16/08 07:49 AM
Edited by LadyMartha on Sun 11/16/08 07:50 AM
don't go looking for love cuz love has to find you offtopic

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:53 AM


You are right. Gonna take this one day at a time and see what happens. What else can I do? Thanks everyone.


maybe its something to do with the steelers....lollaugh j/kflowerforyou

go browns:banana:


Oh no you didn't.. mad laugh

I have a joke for all (10) of the Brown fans, but I don't think I will tell it. I'm sure you have heard it before.

FETTS61's photo
Sun 11/16/08 08:01 AM



You are right. Gonna take this one day at a time and see what happens. What else can I do? Thanks everyone.


maybe its something to do with the steelers....lollaugh j/kflowerforyou

go browns:banana:


Oh no you didn't.. mad laugh

I have a joke for all (10) of the Brown fans, but I don't think I will tell it. I'm sure you have heard it before.
rofl rofl youre prolly right