girls are b*tches
haha
sorry but true

not all girls but most

agreed

i wont lie

i can be a total ***** if you catch me on a bad day

which isn't good on my part

i shouldn't take my sh*t out on other people

i dont blame ya, it can happen. but if it does, just be sure to make peace when necessary

yeah i try to
i don't like being mad
or mean
im not a mean person

i dont like being angered either. i dont see you as a meanie either

haha thanks

im a nice person
at least i try to be haha
just kidding

oh gawds must hide oh wait you just playing hehe nevermind

Then don't give it up until you KNOW that's not all they are after.

Simple solution.

ha ha
well tell me this,

what do you think a good girlfriend or partner would be?

i want a guys perspective

I'm curious, if you don't mind and i would hope you would be honest with this question. How long have you known each person before you met them. Don't give an answer of what you think we would wont to here. What is the actually time you spend geting to know somone, somewhat before you meet them?

i talk to them over the phone for a few weeks

MY idea of a " good g/f " probably isn't going to completely mesh with someone else's.

For me....it's someone who can realize that we are in a serious relationship, but not have to spend every waking minute in each other's presence.

I think the things that are pretty much universal though are things like, loyal, funny, sweet, honest.....ya know....the usual stuff that people say they are looking for.

I don't mean to be harsh here...really...

but, you are only 19 and to state you are "mature and know where you want to be in 4 years"?

I give you "props" (as you folks say of your age range) for steering your own ship and all, but given you clearly already have children at your tender age and are still a student trying to obtain some resemblence of a career...keep on course with THAT vs. trying to find Mr. Right, right now.

Not to mention, you mention..."most women are "b*tches" just proves my point that you are immature by nature and shear lack of experience except for those of your own age group.

Again, not being harsh or judgmental...just honest and basing my post on my years of experience.

I say, simmer down...relax...enjoy life and your child (children), and when your bitterness has calmed down..."he" will come to you.

So, does the conversation stay as a conversation as getting to know one another or does it usually turn in to a sex conversation. The reason i'm asking this, because if your flirting with them alot, it's easy in there small minds to take it as if your going to give it up and that might be part of your problem. Just a thought, but not saying thats it.

Ok. So you talk to them for a few weeks.

You are most likely not ever going to know a guy's true motives until you actually meet them.

One thing you could try is to tell them that when you meet, they won't be getting any from you for a while.

That may go a long way toward weeding out the ones who are only looking to break off a piece.

i know, thats why i've only met 3 people.

the first left me in the middle of down town at night, i was lost

the second left me stranded in ne portland, where i had never been before

and the third was actually good but i dont know if its going to go anywhere

being lost anywhere in Portland is not cool.

whatever your chemistry is, it fits under the definition of either "explosive" or anti-magnetic.

I hope that you had 'mad money' to take care of yourself.

Okay...recap here:

1. You joined this site on 10/25/08, right?

2. You make sure you talk to anyone you meet at least a two weeks prior to meeting in person, right?

3. You've met three people so far from this site, right?

4. Today's date is 11/16/08, right?

5. You label most other women "b*tchy", right?

And your dilemma again...is?

so people that go to bars are criminals


hhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

maybe it is thngs like that

that make it seem like they are lying

if you already have a preconceived notion

then the guy starts with a disadvantage

and sorry but so do you