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Topic: I'm curious...
elanher Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 505	Sat 11/15/08 08:24 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face.

celtic_kitten Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 9957	Sat 11/15/08 08:25 PM
didn't consider it a relationship until we met and then after we met we had a discussion about it ... before we met we were just "talking"

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Sat 11/15/08 08:26 PM
theres no way id be able to do it. i need that interaction. i mean, whats the point? thats like having a relationship with smarterchild.

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Sat 11/15/08 08:26 PM
well I met someone here and it's been 15 months but we have met twice,and I'll be going at Christmas,but it is hard being so many miles apart.

ScottyBravo Joined Mon 02/26/07 Posts: 9613	Sat 11/15/08 08:26 PM
Friendship, but that's as far as it goes until you meet.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 11/15/08 08:28 PM
Friendship, but that's as far as it goes until you meet. yeppers

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 11/15/08 08:31 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face. You mean...after all the long, late night covo's weve had....you dont love me anymore???

elanher Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 505	Sat 11/15/08 08:33 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face. You mean...after all the long, late night covo's weve had....you dont love me anymore??? Of course, I love you and this other guy and this other guy and this other guy....

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 11/15/08 08:34 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face. You mean...after all the long, late night covo's weve had....you dont love me anymore??? Of course, I love you and this other guy and this other guy and this other guy.... But my loves the biggest....HA HA HA HA

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 11/15/08 08:35 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I naively did it a couple times before I fully understood that LDRs are tools of the devil, or maybe Bob Barker, which is approximately the same thing.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 11/15/08 08:35 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face. Kinda weird to call it a relationship without meeting, IMO.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 11/15/08 08:37 PM
I wouldn't consider anything a relationship until I met someone but I would probably hold off getting distracted if I really found someone that interested me. After we met I would know pretty quick how I felt. Being a military wife you learn to cope with long distance. Maybe not like it but cope with it.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 11/15/08 08:58 PM
I can very easily picture myself in a relationship with someone online. That may be partially due to the fact that both people I have met from here were EXACTLY as they seemed, but after talking to my online interest...and his family for over 6 months...I think I know him pretty well by now.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 11/15/08 09:01 PM
Also...you can know someone for years only to discover they are not what they seemed. It happens a lot.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sat 11/15/08 09:14 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face. Well, yeah. It's a brain relationship here. Learn to love someone's communicative talents and their release of inhibitions which you won't hear/see in face-to-face talk. It's a relationship like a dream, doomed to vanish when the telephone rings, and they say, "Hello???"

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 11/15/08 09:25 PM
How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person? I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face. Well, yeah. It's a brain relationship here. Learn to love someone's communicative talents and their release of inhibitions which you won't hear/see in face-to-face talk. It's a relationship like a dream, doomed to vanish when the telephone rings, and they say, "Hello???" I think if it's the right person, the phone can ring and bring the dream even closer. That has been my experience anyway.

Chadipoo Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 9	Sat 11/15/08 10:11 PM
I've considered it...briefly.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Sat 11/15/08 10:22 PM
I considered it a relationship because there was such a connection that Jon and I had. Our meeting in person only amplified that and that is when things took off between us. We have only been together four times but we know that this is right.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 11/16/08 12:07 AM
I definately considered it a relationship for the 3 months we talked prior to meeting and he did too. Now, after meeting it is just more so.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 11/16/08 12:10 AM
I did back when I didn't know any better. But no more. :)