i only get a tazer.

Thank you! Id been wondering the same thing! Its beenn 15 yrs since i graduated high school & i really do NOT want to go back ever!

WHOA!! thats a great idea. i second the motion.

lets give clueless people tasers.

lmao

good one lol

the clueless clique. our motto is


may tasers always rest safely in the hands of those without a clue.

yay!

My self honestly I don't see a problem with certain ones hanging out in the threads they choose too. For I know for a fact that if anyone else choose to go to that thread and join in they would be accepted if they take the time and let those in the thread get to know them.

For in reality I guess you could say everyone was in a clique if that is what one chooses to label it I prefer to say they are friends my self. For in reality we choose the groups of people just as we do online whom we get along with have things in common with ect..

Once in a while I will join in on a conversation with a certain group and never have I been told I could not. But I do realize one must not just jump in and then get upset if no one says anything to them. If you don't succeed the first time try again.

The problem that I see at times is when someone makes and observation and things get blown out of proportion on a thread then due to that happening more are started to keep it all stirred up actually mocking the drama. All that does is keep it all alive. Does that make sense?

Why should it really bother anyone to that point? All it does is make the problem bigger then it should be. Regardless whether it be in reality or here we will all choose whom we want to talk to on a regular basis. So why let someone get under our skin to the point they bring us down to a level that we know we are above?

I have read what many write on these forums and there are many I respect for the way they think. I have been here long enough to know which ones are full of it and just like to have a good time but actually are very intelligent. They just choose not to show that side. And I have seen those that seem to like to keep the drama stirred up.

Reality of it is at times we must overlook those type of things and move on for we all know we will do as we choose. It is our choice whom we prefer to talk to if they don't fit in they don't fit in that is the way of life.

Kind like the boy that cried wolf finally when no one paid any attention to him all of a sudden he quit. Why due to he lost everyone's attention.

(((Kristi))) you're right and make perfect sense as always and I agree with you.. My point just not made as well as you did, more the "lowering" part ..

I agree with Joy, very well said Kristi

a year ago you would have been right

not so sure now

why Adj? have people not been kind to you? I know your posts are always funny or thoughtful or real... Not sure why you think things are bad with so called "cliques" here...

I would have to agree with Kristie when I first started here yes you can see certain groups of people chatting together in threads


But, rather than just calling it a clique and complain about not being included, you put yourself out there, you say hi, you ask questions and you get to know people.

I have never had personally anyone ignore me or make me feel unwelcome and yes I myself now tend to stay in the threads where I know people but as much as I tease I don't try to make anyone feel unwelcome.

inever said they were good nor bad

but i have seen post get ignored

and i seen it a lot

i did not say it was intended

but it happens (agian a lot)

it is no ones fault and no one to blame

with the growth the site has seen in the last year it was bound to happen

their are so many here very few are able to keep up with the growing membership

and people get ignored

it is just the nature of things

it is a shame that some do not understand this

and take it personal and leave

if they stick around soon others that get ignored would enjoy their company

but to ignore that this is happening does not make it not go on

this is a good site full of great people

and if you hang out in the threads you will find that out

but it takes longer now than it did aa year ago

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

Can you sing and dance?

aint nothing more then a groups of friends.no other other name for it.we stay where we feel confortable.

I try to see things from both sides which at times is really hard for me to do so. But I do know when some are accused of something when another never took the time to get to know them in the first place is wrong no matter how one looks at it. And I can understand why they would want to defend themselves as well.

When we jump to conclusions before finding out the facts things get said that should have never been said. People should take the time and survey the situation first and gather all the facts before they start calling wolf. Those things we learn with experiences in life. So we must remember that some still have to learn those things in life as well.

thanks! I so adore you... smart, smart woman you are..

Adj, I'm glad all is good with you...

I still believe it is true now as much as a year ago it is our choice if we choose not to join in with a thread. Friendships take time to form either online or off line. There are ones that just lately I have started talking to that have been here a while and found out they are funny as hell to talk to and I really enjoy the conversation whether it be serious or just a bunch of joking around. One never knows if they do not take the time and try.

read my next post

Okay does anyone know how to just plain play anymore? That's what I'm doing, having fun! People were getting way to serious about silly issues and I had to tease about it. Not trying to stir up trouble, but to merely lighten things up around here! Lets all just have fun!!!!

maybe u are wrong..... im thinking more like a yr and half ago.. i think the difference is back then we did tease each other and newbies lightly <except for Joshy, he got hit hard lol> the thing is the attitudes seemed to have changed for instance Joshy bit back but in a nice funny way... he was fun. it just seems the ones biting these days dont stop biting and it gets old.. turns into drama and they are out to purposely hurt others.. before it was out to joke with others.. people just dont know when to stop now you have to work the newbies in little at a time.. also what i see a lot on here now as compared to the past is we have a lot of people who think they own the site Or give off that attitude to, before we all shared the site.. i do think that a presence once in a while of the site owners would help.. for at one time they were around i think that is why us oldies or whatever you newbies calls us respect the site a little more and do like to share it with everyone.... JMO