Oh, come on over here, Fanta.....Lily will protect you

Thank-you to all those who responded to the question. I appreciate your
honesty and the fact that you even took the time to think about it.

To those who chose be interlopers and degredate this topic, I'm sorry
you are not able to maintain a thought process that relates to a few
simple questions. When you do this you take away the real and
thoughtful opinions of others on matters they may see as important, on
matters they actually took time to consider. Your antics can be
constrewed as disrespect and seen by those who choose to be open and
honest as complacent, condescending, and in general a shun of their
opinions.

There are other playgrounds, ample playgrounds on this site that will
allow you your play time.

In case you are brave enough to converse in person, there is email.

what would be brave about that?and transvestites and transexuals are
different and somee have not changed ummmm ,,fully ,,,not my business
,,,but too flamboyant i don't like regardless of gender or non gender

thanks bigpappy for continueing with the topic. I could have guessed
what most people would say. As it seems to getting a lot of press
lately, as many GLBT issues are, I think I was more interested in
seeing if anyone had ever even thought about it.

well you did say friends also i ther or ..i've had gay friends of both
sexes and i've met some gay's of both sexes i didn't like at all same as
any person i don't base things on looks or color or religion and so on
and i do try to be pleasant to everyone just some are not appealing in
thier attitude no matter thier sex ,,,,,people who are fun to be around
is what's important to me ,,and i don't mean someone needs to be a laugh
a minute,,,shoot i like fishing and shooting pool and swimming and on
and on

right on big. In full agreement, and as you said, starting out
'pleasant' and open to everyone, gives us a chance to see what good we
might find there and even to see what life is like from a different
perspective.

yup

to be dead honest, if they have the parts of a woman, feel like a woman,
and act like a woman, I dont care whaty they atarted out in life as.
Those are only the "shell" of the person to begin with.
Now, I do not consider myself to be gay, I defintiely like my ladies,
lol, but I dont like the "all pretty nothing upstairs" type of woman
either. I look for whats inside. That goes for friendship, lover,
activity partner, whatever.
I have a lot of friends who are gay. I have a lot of friends that dont
know. Me? I dont care.
And as far as to the question of cihld birth goes. I already have tow
children. I am open to more children,yes; I am open to the possibility
of aving more children with my future wife/partner. BUT I am happy with
the two I already have to begin with. If I find someone who can not
produce children, oh well, that is not the end o the world to me.

would i be friends with a tranny? I have a very dear friend who is one.
Please dont judge those who think outside the box. You would be amazed
at how many have so many different lifestyles and fetishes.

OK, Topic Question.....

In a public restroom, what is the correct restroom for a transgender to
use???
Mens or Womans?
And the same question, if the trans gender is only partialy
constructed???
Serious question....
We had an it,( what we called it) at work, and it caused an emplee
issue. Men didnt want someone with tits pissing beside them, and women
didnt agree with, IT, being a woman, while he still possessed a DONG...

hell have them pee behind the second tree on the left then.LOL

It really caused a controversy at work.

Whats next transgender restrooms in all public places??

i have a very close g/f from H.S. that has always wanted to be a man and
someday wants to get the surgery to do so, its just $$ setting her back
to do it..shes dating this woman now, that used to be a man..in fact
they r getting married in August..she is probably one of the most
wonderful people u will ever meet..a great gal!! I've known her since
H.S.

As far as the question date one noo as far as friends sure as long as it
is clear from the beginning and we respect each others space. Then there
is not a question of were we stand. I have had several friends in the
past that are gay. They knew I was straight and did not judge them for
the life style they chose to live. They respected me as me and I did the
same for them. I have found out in the past that just because they are
gay does not mean they are gonna hit on you my friends show there
respect of my choices why should I not in return have respect for
theres. I have never once felt uncomfortable in front of them for out of
respect they don't do things in front of there friends to make them feel
that way. Hey as long as they understand from the start were you stand
on that they will respect your feelings and never cross that line.

You still didnt answer the question of the bathrooms!!!

ey fanta bro, the issue of restrooms in public are no longer an issue.
Most public places have a "family" restroom now, and a "coed or shaired"
restroom, partially because ofthis issue, and also partially because of
the difficulties in takeg children into public bathrooms.
I know I heard sometign a few years ago about it becoming mandatory to
have somethign accomodating , but I dont know what happened to the bill,
if it was passed thrown out, or what.

there you go daniel. good answer I guess, Ive never seen a family
restroom. Except, at the house. I guess these companies need to hurry up
and fork out more dollars to build them, and faster. Damn I hope the
dont raise the sales tax to pay for it. Maybe a tax on Condoms would be
more fitting.

or on pampers?

look in your local walmart supercenter. I can almost garuntee you will
find one over by what used to be layaway...

hell I live in hillbilly land. We just got indoor toilets 5 yrs
ago......