Women don't usually care about looks, at least not as much as the way you carry yourself across the floor, so-to-speak. Women can sense it when you feel good about yourself and it changes the way they look at you. But if you walk with insecurity? They sense that too.

That is so true about us women, but it also holds true for guys as well.


If I told you that you were unattractive, you'd say "She's right, poor me." And if I told you that you were attractive, you'd probably think, "She's just saying it to be nice, she really doesn't think that." With either answer, I'm not going to be right. When you are going through a hard breakup like you are going through, it's very hard to get out of that, "Woe is me" way of thinking. Especially, because you weren't given any definitive answers as to why she broke up with you. But just remember, she went to somebody else to look for answers in fixing your relationship problems. And even if you were partially to blame for some of the problems, (cause let's face it, none of us are perfect), she still should have had enough respect for you to discuss it with you and not someone else.