the Court that she was being ABUSED since AD 1.

well i couldnt hide it very well

i felt so bad about that i told her

i been payin for it since


party on...

Steper, do you ever spend any time down on Nasworthy, built powerlines
all around that lake.We used to call it nasty water, waay back when, but
last time I was by there they had started takeing good care around the
lake

yea i go to lake nasty water almost every weekend

lol...i love it there

do lots of fishin there...


party on....

Question:

If a man who "hits" is undesirable and women don't usually "hit" on
men...where does that leave us all?

Twosteper, have you tried forgiving yourself?

You know it was wrong, I'm sure you've said sorry for it many times
over.
JMO the ones a cheater always a cheater applies when your reffer to a
3rd party...as in if it was yourself you can make amens to your self. a
3rd person, you cant change what they dont want to.

Did your wife tattoo on your for head or something that you feel
branded for life ???

catch me

its very hard to forgive yaself when ya lose the best things in ya life
ie
family
friends
n yes even my family disowned me

n now ladies dare not trust me cuz i cheated

atleast im honest about it n not hide it

i guess thats why im alone now

im branded for life

party on...

TWO YOU SEEM LIKE A REAL SWEET MAN AND NO OFFENSE TO YOU OR ANYONE ELSE
WHO CHEATS BUT I PERSONALLY HAVE A PROB WITH SECOND CHANCES...
I FEEL IF IT DIDNT WORK THE FIRST TIME
WHAT MAKES US THINK ITLL WORK AGAIN?

AND THERES ALWAYS THAT LITTLE SEED OF DOUBT!
SORRY SWEETY,,JUST HOW I AM!
THATS NOT TO SAY THAT YOU OR ANYONE ELSE DOESNT DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE
JUST THAT I CANT GIVE UM.

ONE DAY THAT RULE IS GONNA BITE ME ON MY (_(_)!!

(((((((((((CATCH)))))))))))


HAPPY EASTER!!

its ok cuty

i understand

not alot of ladies will

n i can understand why

i be honest to a lady upfront
so they can decide

thats just me


party on...

I don't really think you can compare~~ but I really think you do need to
stop living in the past. We all make mistakes, you need to stop looking
back and just look ahead. Maybe you did lose your wife, but now its time
to move on and make the best out of it..learn from it. We all have to
grow from the relationships that we have had in the past...just don't
dwell on them.
Stop hurting yourself...move on with your life! No one is judging you
except yourself, so stop doing that I am sure that it is
a lesson that has taught you something very deep, obviously, you think
you lost the best thing! I think it helped you grow

(((((((((((Sher)))))))))))

Happy Easter to you too!

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Ok! TWO, 20yr frickin years ago!!!

So when are you getting out on parole???

Yea I can understand the second chance on the marrage with some people,
So yea that was over, but all this time you havent been able to move
on???

your FAMILY DISOWNED YOU???? what did you do, boik her
during church on Sunday during services or something?

you have kids that you were able to see??

catch me

yes we had kids n she let me back in their lives about 10 years ago

my family is deep southern baptist n dont believe in cheatin

parole?


no one would even consider that after they find out why we divorced


so life goes on no matter what ya past is like

party on...

I think both are bad, but the hitting is absolutely the worst. It can
escalate to murder for God's sake. You marry someone who is supposed to
love you and care for you, have children with them, and then they start
using you for a punching bag, and there is no excuse for that ever,
never can excuse being hit. Verbal abuse is just as bad and cuts as
deep and almost harder to forgive, the bruises go away, but the verbal
abuse sticks, cuts even deeper.

Cheating is bad, but people can work on it and get over it if the
parties want to save the relationship or you divorce and move on. I have
known people who cheated and then went on to become the best spouse a
person could ever ask for. My ex cheated on me and he beat me, the
beating was the worst by far. Kept hoping he would move in with one of
the ones he cheated with, but damn, no one would put up with him so he
kept coming home.

Two-step, it was a long time ago, forgive yourself and move on. You
deserve to have a happy live, learn from your mistake, don't repeat it
and be happy. Life is too short to punish yourself for a mistake made
20 years ago.

From reading your posts........ you know both are wrong... and i say
thank you for recognizing that !!!

Two-stepper... I feel for you... loosing what really matters to you...

I'm facing the same loss; but what really sucks is when the other party
does the cheating, and when confronted (calm verbal confrontation),
grabs the kids and runs to another city...

As far as your question... both destroy trust... both cause pain...
both kill the relationship.

Personally, (my opinion only), I can take a punch straight up and know
how to deal with it soooooooo much better than a lying, cheating, sneaky
spouse. The cheating can get you killed just as easily, especially if he
is having unprotected sex, or he hooks up w/ some psychopath who decides
to make him a widower. I can't tolerate infidelity. The toll it takes on
ones self-esteem, mental health and trust is almost intolerable.

lilly

the thing is i felt bad about it afterwards that i told her
i didnt hide it

unprotected sex...no way

i used protecetion even back then

but i was honest n told her right afterwards so no hidein

i felt so bad about it all

i could say alot was goin on n make her look bad
but that would take the blame off me

i still did wrong

not her

party on...