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Topic: Before they met you
Jodi22's photo
Tue 11/11/08 08:04 PM

:smile:Should you know about every relationship your significant other has had before they met you?:smile:


In the event you wish to know the fine details of your sug-other, you have to consider if you are willing to share your history as well! Hmmmmm I would like to keep some of my secrets under wraps for sure!

auburngirl's photo
Wed 11/12/08 04:03 AM
What happens before they met you should NOT matter! Period!

tundraguy's photo
Wed 11/12/08 05:42 PM
i agree. it complicates things. cute pooch by the way

catwoman96's photo
Wed 11/12/08 05:57 PM
i do want to know about his past....but i also dont want to spend an hour talking about some other chic....that would get boring and make me think he was worried about his past not his future.

hey...we all got a past...and if i want to truly know a person, i want to know what his past was like. and that includes other girls

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 11/12/08 09:38 PM
There are some things that have happened to me that have gone a long way toward determining the person that I am today.

If someone can simply accept the way I am, and not only accept it, but appreciate it, then I see no real reason to have to explain it. However, if she asks at some point why I am the way I am, I would have no problem telling them.

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:26 PM
Nah there is no need..it may make me jealous.

Fit2bFunVB's photo
Sat 11/15/08 12:12 AM

no, but i think i'd like at least a general idea of why their major relationships had failed.

i don't want to be just another number on the list.


Agreed. No, I don't want every sordid - DRAMA - detail.. but getting some insight into why (or at least why they think it failed) their major relationships failed gives me an idea about their current position. If you've not taken the time to look back and reflect upon the mistakes made in the past, then how are you going to grow and change for the future relationships you might have?

Great point papersmile!
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