Topic: The F-word & Joe Scarborough
adj4u's photo
Mon 11/10/08 08:47 PM



I read on a parenting advice site that the average 3-4 year old girl KNOWS at least 23 curse words/phrases. The average 3-4 year old boy KNOWS at least 17, and these are learned from sources OUTSIDE the home.

No matter what is put on the television, if your child goes to school, playgroups, etc, they are bound to pick them up, and at a very young age.

Tina


exactly

how SHOCKING is that


The worse that my child has heard from school are the words, crap and heck.

I guess it depends on which school you go to.


point is we all would like to protect the kids from thingss like that --

but it is an impossibility and if you shelter them to much rather than teach them how to react the child is getting a disservice in their upbringing

thus when all this shocking stuff hits them they will not know what to do

and i have seen more than one sheltered child turn wild between 16 and 20


Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 08:50 PM




I read on a parenting advice site that the average 3-4 year old girl KNOWS at least 23 curse words/phrases. The average 3-4 year old boy KNOWS at least 17, and these are learned from sources OUTSIDE the home.

No matter what is put on the television, if your child goes to school, playgroups, etc, they are bound to pick them up, and at a very young age.

Tina


exactly

how SHOCKING is that


The worse that my child has heard from school are the words, crap and heck.

I guess it depends on which school you go to.


point is we all would like to protect the kids from thingss like that --

but it is an impossibility and if you shelter them to much rather than teach them how to react the child is getting a disservice in their upbringing

thus when all this shocking stuff hits them they will not know what to do

and i have seen more than one sheltered child turn wild between 16 and 20




I'm doing just fine with raising my child. I do it in an age appropriate manner.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 11/10/08 08:50 PM
Censorship needs to die in movies, video games, and music...news should have the decency to follow certain guidelines given their audience...but censorship in all needs to die one day.

adj4u's photo
Mon 11/10/08 08:51 PM






would there be an issue if he said intercourse you

a rose be any other name n all

is ti smells sweet

or pr1cks you with the thorns


My child would probably not have noticed that word. The other is much more noticeable.


but did we not cover this with the good educated intelligent man thingy


would it be such a big deal if it was not made a big deal of

after all what makes that word so noticeable (the big deal??)

do i like that language not particularly

but would it not be better to teach that you should not use certain words till you grow up

and even then it is considered rude

after all does the child know the meaning of the word

and maybe if the issue is handled in such a way maybe the shock factor would dissipate and the use would actually decrease

just a thought

but hey

what do i know


My child is not familiar with that language. I don't want it heard from the television!!


i do not want your child to hear it neither

but the point is if it wasn't a big deal then it probably would not happen

and we know they here it when they are in public anyway

so remove the shock factor and it would not be so shocking


Nope. Ain't going there. It hasn't been heard yet.



then they are very young or very sheltered (i am hoping for the young)

or someone is mistaken (i would bet they know what would happen if they let you know they heard it [cause how could they tell ya without you getting mad for using it] do not take it wrong

i would also bet you are a very good parent

but everybodys kids have things go on in their live the parent knows nothing about

adj4u's photo
Mon 11/10/08 08:53 PM





I read on a parenting advice site that the average 3-4 year old girl KNOWS at least 23 curse words/phrases. The average 3-4 year old boy KNOWS at least 17, and these are learned from sources OUTSIDE the home.

No matter what is put on the television, if your child goes to school, playgroups, etc, they are bound to pick them up, and at a very young age.

Tina


exactly

how SHOCKING is that


The worse that my child has heard from school are the words, crap and heck.

I guess it depends on which school you go to.


point is we all would like to protect the kids from thingss like that --

but it is an impossibility and if you shelter them to much rather than teach them how to react the child is getting a disservice in their upbringing

thus when all this shocking stuff hits them they will not know what to do

and i have seen more than one sheltered child turn wild between 16 and 20




I'm doing just fine with raising my child. I do it in an age appropriate manner.


good for you

this post was not here when i posted the last one

note the 2nd to last line

Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 08:57 PM







would there be an issue if he said intercourse you

a rose be any other name n all

is ti smells sweet

or pr1cks you with the thorns


My child would probably not have noticed that word. The other is much more noticeable.


but did we not cover this with the good educated intelligent man thingy


would it be such a big deal if it was not made a big deal of

after all what makes that word so noticeable (the big deal??)

do i like that language not particularly

but would it not be better to teach that you should not use certain words till you grow up

and even then it is considered rude

after all does the child know the meaning of the word

and maybe if the issue is handled in such a way maybe the shock factor would dissipate and the use would actually decrease

just a thought

but hey

what do i know


My child is not familiar with that language. I don't want it heard from the television!!


i do not want your child to hear it neither

but the point is if it wasn't a big deal then it probably would not happen

and we know they here it when they are in public anyway

so remove the shock factor and it would not be so shocking


Nope. Ain't going there. It hasn't been heard yet.



then they are very young or very sheltered (i am hoping for the young)

or someone is mistaken (i would bet they know what would happen if they let you know they heard it [cause how could they tell ya without you getting mad for using it] do not take it wrong

i would also bet you are a very good parent

but everybodys kids have things go on in their live the parent knows nothing about


My child is very open and honest and we communicate well. My ear is talked off and I'm told what happened during the day.

I know that this will change as the child gets older.

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Mon 11/10/08 09:01 PM
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Mon 11/10/08 09:12 PM

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Lynann's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:49 PM
After family viewing hours the rules are much different. Late night hosts could swear but don't generally use language much different from that used during family viewing hours. Why? Because they've been policing themselves.

Why did this come up? Because the FCC changed the rules. At one time they fined a network for the use of a fleeting expletive. Now they not only fine the network but each station that aired the offense as well. Like Bono saying an award was *ucking brilliant or when a soldier being interviewed swore under fire in a live interview. Fines all over the place! Great income generator eh?

The trouble is the FCC did not issue fines when Saving Private Ryan aired with swearing. Then their standards changes again and fines were issued when a jazz documentary aired with swearing.

The courts decision will be interesting. Especially the opinions of the the more conservative judges. They are in a bit of a sticky spot. Upholding the FCC's policy of fining for fleeting expletives in this case would put them in the position of okaying government monitoring of speech among other things. They are going to have to tread carefully around this issue in their decision and their opinion.


Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:54 PM
Lyann,

Do you know what time is considered, "After family viewing hours"?

adj4u's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:55 PM
well i wonder what the forefathers would think

about the laws of today

i bet there would be a revolt for sure

Lynann's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:01 PM
I beleive it is after 10pm

I will double check when I have some more time

Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:06 PM

I beleive it is after 10pm

I will double check when I have some more time


That's all I need to know, thanks.flowerforyou

Sorry about hijacking your thread.flowerforyou

adj4u's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:18 PM


I beleive it is after 10pm

I will double check when I have some more time


That's all I need to know, thanks.flowerforyou

Sorry about hijacking your thread.flowerforyou


you hijacked the thread

and where did you take it

hhuuuuhhhhhhhhh

what where is it

come on fess up

give up the lo cal (insert fleeting expletive here) it give it up

Lynann's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:31 PM
Some info for you from a Slate article.

FCC v. Fox Television is not a First Amendment case. It's a First Amendment-minus case, in that while the various justices insist that it need not be decided on constitutional grounds, it nevertheless provokes one of the best First Amendment debates I have ever heard. Since the Supreme Court decided FCC v. Pacifica in 1978, which found the midday radio broadcast of George Carlin's "Filthy Words" monologue to be indecent, the FCC rule has been this: The agency may regulate a daytime broadcast of the sort of "verbal shock treatment" of the Carlin monologue, but it will overlook the "isolated use" of one-off potty words. A 2001 clarification of the FCC policy provided that a finding of indecency requires that the naughty word "describe or depict sexual or excretory organs or activities" and be "patently offensive as measured by contemporary community standards."

Enter Bono, who accepted his 2003 Golden Globe with the heartfelt (live) declaration that the honor was "really, really ****ing brilliant." Oh. And Cher, who received her 2002 Billboard music award with the gracious, "I've also had critics for the last 40 years saying that I was on my way out every year. So **** 'em." And the ever delightful Nicole Richie, who wowed them at the Billboard awards the following year with the observation that "it's not so ****ing simple" to remove "cow **** out of a Prada purse."

Kinda makes you long for George Carlin, doesn't it?


The FCC would have ordinarily ignored these fleeting expletives, but it announced in 2004 that "given the core meaning of the F-word, any use of that word or a variation, in any context, inherently has a sexual connotation" and thus constitutes indecency. Then the FCC went around tagging everyone and their uncle for various fleeting expletives, from NYPD Blue (for "bull****" and "****head") to the CBS Early Show (for "bull****ter"). Fox and its friends appealed, arguing, among other things, that the FCC's sudden rule change violated the federal Administrative Procedure Act, which bars "arbitrary and capricious" agency policy changes or those made without a "reasonable basis." The federal appeals court didn't want to discuss the First Amendment issues when it squashed the FCC like a bug, but it did so anyhow. The Supreme Court does the same today, leading Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, at one point, to observe that the whole case has an "air of futility" because, if the court just decides the narrow administrative issue, the First Amendment problem is still "the elephant in the room."

Garre, arguing for the FCC, defends the policy change because the FCC "concretely explained it" and it was "consistent with its mandate." Justice Ginsburg can't understand why an expletive-rich broadcast of Saving Private Ryan was spared the FCC's wrath while a program about the history of jazz was tagged for indecency. "There's very little rhyme or reason which one of these words is OK and which isn't," she tuts.

Garre points out that 28 percent of the viewing audience for the offending Nicole Richie broadcast were children under age 18. He says her swearing "was shockingly gratuitous and graphic." He adds that the "F-word is one of the most graphic, explicit, and vulgar words in the English language." Justice John Paul Stevens asks if that's still the case when the word is used "with no reference whatsoever to sexual function." Garre says yes because it "inevitably conjures up a coarse sexual image."

Ginsburg wonders how "contemporary community standards are determined." Garre says the FCC asks its "collective experts: lawmakers, broadcasters, courts, interest groups" and the Church Lady. When Ginsburg points out that Pacifica, the Carlin case, was decided in 1978, before the Internet, Garre replies that the proliferation of smut on cable and the Internet are all the more reason to strictly regulate network TV: So people can turn on their sets and eat dinner, confident that they will "not be bombarded" with Big Bird. Dropping the F-bomb.

Justice Stephen Breyer wants to know how the five-second-delay-bleeping thingy works and why it only works sometimes. Garre explains that Richie's expletives weren't bleeped because "they only had one person working the bleeping machine" that night.

Stevens proves he is our kind of jurist when he asks whether the FCC ever "takes into consideration that the particular remark was really hilarious?"

Carter Phillips, representing Fox, says the FCC's change of policy about fleeting expletives was sneaky. From 1978 to 2004, words were only indecent if they described sexual or excretory organs or activities; that changed in 2004 for no discernible reason. Scalia retorts that the F-word always referred to sexual activities. Adds Chief Justice John Roberts, "The reason these words shock is because of the association." Scalia deadpans, "And that's why we don't use the word jolly-woggle instead of the F-word." Even Justice David Souter argues that if what changed between 1978 and 2004 was that the FCC determined that viewers were deeply offended by fleeting expletives, then the change of policy might not be arbitrary and capricious. Phillips replies that this isn't the only question here. "This was not about regulating the price of oil going through a pipeline," he says. "This is about regulating speech." Neither Scalia nor Roberts will accept his argument that there is some higher standard to be met for administrative regulation just because speech is involved.

Phillips adds that this is a statute with criminal penalties—including potential fines of $325,000. The FCC policy represents an "extraordinary in terrorem regime," he argues, citing amicus briefs describing the writers block faced by TV writers and broadcasters who no longer know which circumstances will set off the FCC's moral whack-a-mole. (Disclosure: I am a trustee of the Jefferson Center for the Protection of Free Expression, which also filed an amicus brief in this case.) What, wonders Phillips, about small TV stations afraid to carry local sports for fear of a student letting loose?

Roberts says awards shows are different. Nicole Richie has many youthful fans because she is a "celebrity" and they "like her music" and "want to hear what she has to say." (Name one Nicole Richie fan, Mr. Chief Justice, I defy you.)

When Phillips says that allowing a handful of objectors to set broadcast policy is a "hecklers' veto," Scalia heckles him right back. "So those of us that don't like it are hecklers, and you can't take our position into account?"
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Stevens asks whether Americans today are more tolerant of foul language than they were 30 years ago, and when Phillips agrees they probably are, Scalia says, "Do you think your clients had anything to do with that?" Phillips retorts, exasperated: "Go to a baseball game, Justice Scalia. You hear these words every time you go to a ballgame." Scalia snaps back that this is still "not normal in polite company" and a "coarsening of manners."

It's hard to say how this all shakes out. Three justices say very little. Two clearly favor granting the FCC even more standardless discretion. The rest keep offering peanuts to the elephant in the room. It's a safe bet that the court will try to stick to the narrow administrative question, despite the justices' itch to talk dirty. Mostly, though, it's a bitterly disappointing day for those of us who'd looked forward to hearing some filthy words at the high court. But, having run the whole case through the FCC's highly subjective, context-based smut filter, I did come up with the following list of dirty words from today's arguments: Briefs. Golden globes. First blow. Dung. Pipeline. Jolly-woggle. Perhaps it's true that the Supreme Court can take away our F-bomb. But they cannot touch our dirty, dirty minds.

Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:31 PM



I beleive it is after 10pm

I will double check when I have some more time


That's all I need to know, thanks.flowerforyou

Sorry about hijacking your thread.flowerforyou


you hijacked the thread

and where did you take it

hhuuuuhhhhhhhhh

what where is it

come on fess up

give up the lo cal (insert fleeting expletive here) it give it up


I didn't take it you did. And if you're not telling, I'm not either. I'm no tattle tale.

adj4u's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:34 PM
huh

unuh wasnt me

i didn ot do it

and you cant prove it

and thats the truth ppphhhhfffffffffttttt

Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:41 PM
Edited by Winx on Mon 11/10/08 10:42 PM
Lyann,

I'm surprised by what they said. It's interesting that they call it a First Amendment-minus case.

Have you ever seen America's Next Top Models? There is a lot of bad language on there at 7:00 last year and 8:00 this year.


Now there's a Motherproof.com. ad on here. laugh



Winx's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:42 PM

huh

unuh wasnt me

i didn ot do it

and you cant prove it

and thats the truth ppphhhhfffffffffttttt


Ya did it.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 11/11/08 12:12 AM
Vote me for next term of president and I will do away with the FCC.smokin