The arrogant young man smug in his youth had a smoldering anger.
He took it out on the one that loved him the most.
He said and did things that you should never say to your mate yet he did
So off he went to work at night in an unpleasant place and that only fueled his resent.
His meek,shy girl the one with the low self worth and esteem took all the angry words to heart.
They were married and had two beautiful daughters and bought a house.
The angry words of the arrogant young man tortured her mentally.
The infidelity started and she rationalized her behavior thinking and saying.
"He said these things he doesn't love me".
"He works at night to be away from me/us".
So a few years passed and the angry young man made peace
peace with himself
peace with his job
peace with his parents
peace with his position as a father and husband
Peace with GOD
He became a Decent and Changed man.
A Decent Man she Didn't want anymore.
He attempted to make things right and was told the relationship was "bullsh!t and fake"
He said to her "Listen To Yourself ,You Are The Only One Who Ever Says That It's Bullsh!t"
He was told this every time he tried to make things right.
He questioned the infidelity and it was denied
She said if she was that it was "The Only Way She Could Hurt You"
Her infidelity and the guilt from it would not allow her to accept him and the man he had become.
Mentally she could not except that he loved her because if she did that meant she would have to deal with what she had done (infidelity).
He went to work every night suspecting the infidelity through a gnawing in his gut and ignored the intuition for his children sake for his older daughter would have been destroyed by a divorce at that age the child was simply too emotional.
Years went by and they grew apart and the children grew up more and more rationalizing of bad behavior took place embellishing bad times blowing them out of proportion.
She took up squandering their now abundant income and had acquired a new "affair" this tore the now Decent Mans soul for he could see everything he ever worked so hard for being destroyed and discarded like common trash.
So the man finally found out the truth of what exactly was going on (He already knew)
and did the only thing he could which is walk away from everything except for his daughters.

The reason I posted this is for the young guys be careful what you say and do guys
your woman will never forget and this kinda thing could happen to you.

...ok. That made little sense.

What it means is that if you say messed up sh*t in the beginning of a relationship it will come back to haunt you especially if you have a week woman.

No, if you mess shyt up in the beginning of a relationship it will come back to haunt you because you messed shyt up in the beginning of the relationship.

I want a "month" woman

True thanks for correcting that

That's a pretty long commitment. How about a "day" woman?

what about yearly women?

Week? Do you mean weak? Well I'm going to assume you meant weak...you screw it up in the beginning with any lady, weak or strong...it probably won't go past that, it's not like they are blind or void of being able to come to a conclusion early on in the relationship. You screw up, it won't work.

Yes Hello, Im good thank you,

How about your self, ?

Yes i just wanted to renew my gold membership,

for one month,

because they charge by the hour

Would you settle for bi-annual ?

yes I meant weak. And what I meant by weak is not every woman is going to run off and cheat because you say something messed up.

your making less sence every post

No, I think just about any of them will...or at least has been my experience, one slip and it tends to be over.

weakness does not constitute cheating

any woman/man can cheat

it takes a strong woman/man not to cheat because she/he value themselves and those they love

are you being serious?

miss lilith what is shyt is that a past tense for shy? or german for human dung?

It makes sense to me that's all that matters. I value peoples opinions here so I am not going to go back and forth with people about what makes sense. And as far as the misspelling of the word weak Sorry and the jokes are welcome I do have a sense of humor.

Yes I am perhaps I am mistaken and it was done out of spite!

then it's a good thing I dont have spite

OP I normally avoid posts like these because I can read you've been hurt, but to generalize and lump all human being together is beyond me.

also remember there are always 3 sides to every story - your side, the other side and the truth.