since i broke up with my ex nearly two months ago we've done a little chasing each other. hes been telling me hes sorry about the way he treated me and wants to make it up to me he loves me and misses me...but i found out hes been seeing a women at work (whom is older than him) for nearly 2 months and hes now hes told everyone about it..i went to confront him and he wouldnt admit to seeing anyone like she thinks they are all he told me was that shes a friend and he has feelings for and doesnt know if he will date her...he said he only told me those things because he never thought he was going to see me again and he had to get it out of his system it was never his intention for us to get back together......now im in two minds whether to try and stay friends with him in the long run or whether to tell her about him playing the both of us but then im just going to sound like the jealous ex which im not i just want her to know to be careful because of the **** he has and is still putting me through for the last 2 years but you know it might not mean much to her seeing as shes seperated and getting a divorce he might just be a rebound thing to play with so she might not care what i have to say and then ill proberbly just get him abusing me........i just would like the truth for once i cant really understand why he hid me for 2 years and then after 2 months he can be so open about her what exactly was he hiding me for...other women too???...so whats some advice on this???

move on and forget him

best revenge?? live well

spork him repeatedly next time you see him

I agree. Men will only do to you what you allow them to!

Hmmm a 90's country song comes to mind... Goodbye Earl.. LMAO look it up if you don't know what it is

If you are on a site talking about your ex.....you ain't even close to being over him.

Wrong People will only do to you what you allow them to. Both women and men.

Move on hon; revenge gets you nowhere it only allows him or anyone else to "rent space in your head". I don't think you are that kind of person. There are plenty of good men out there; don't give up.

Although the "sporking" sounds appealing for a while...living well is the best revenge AND you can look at yourself in the mirror every morning!

didn't I see this episode on South Park?

I stay totally out of contact with the past.

clean cut, clean pain, clean healing.

The Best thing you can do is Live the best life you can and when he calls kill him with kindness keeping a friendly upbeat tone of voice like his BS has not effected you at all.

If he does not treat you with respect then you don't need him.
Try the "idiot free" diet and push away!

Cut your losses and move on!!!! There are to many good men out there to put up with strait-up bull s h i t!

act like nothing bothers you that will bug him to death

I find the best revenge is to use their toothbrush to clean the toilet and then pee on the toothbrush!!!

Ya dont thank me for the idea!!!

He's a jerk,,,forget his azz and live forward..

He can't play you if you refuse to have contact with him.

Best idea I've seen, make sure you spork in a quick forward and back motion (you've seen the prison shanks, right?).