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Topic: Do you ever wonder why someone likes you??
ofei1's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:39 PM
Not necessarily in terms of "he/she is too good for me" but perhaps " I wonder what quality I posess that this person is attracted to"...
Wondering if its just me

no photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:41 PM
No, I find it hard to believe that NO ONE likes me!

shades

Goofball73's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:41 PM
I wonder it all the time....I aint nothing special. Just little ol', goofy me.:angel:

ledi180's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:42 PM
Yeah, I do. Not that I'm not worthy, but what is it that makes me attractive - I think it's different for everyone - different traits will draw different folks.

REDGIRL67's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:45 PM
Not bragging, really i'm not, but men are always telling me i'm sexy and I just don't get it.blushing Thanks to all that think that thoughflowers

alicat4213's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:47 PM
I'm still trying to figure it out to this day.....

Totage's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:48 PM

Not necessarily in terms of "he/she is too good for me" but perhaps " I wonder what quality I posess that this person is attracted to"...
Wondering if its just me


I wonder everytime

no photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:48 PM
Of course I do. Ones emotions in my opinion have a huge impact on how we perceive ourselves and how we allow others to see. Be careful for self sabatoge has ruined many a relationships.

no photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:48 PM
Edited by livetolive on Sun 11/09/08 02:49 PM
Of course I do. Ones emotions in my opinion have a huge impact on how we perceive ourselves and how we allow others to see us. Be careful for self sabatoge has ruined many a relationships.

tanyaann's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:49 PM
rofl @ lex



Yep. Every relationship I enter into I ask them... what about me do you like? Cause it stumps me too how I am any different than anyone else.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:49 PM
Apparently women love the way I grill....so I gots that going for me.laugh laugh laugh

krupa's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:52 PM
Oh...this is easy brother!

We are all our own worst critic....it is sooo easy to come down on ones self when the house is quiet.

Focus on the positives my good man....

If you can laugh easily...that should count for something.

If you are good in the sack....make em earn the sack time.

If you are kind or easy going....look past those who cannot see that.

If you are not wealthy...refer back to the great in the sack thing.....

it will all pan out my man.

Drifters13's photo
Sun 11/09/08 02:59 PM
I wouldn't know. only had one woman I thought actually liked me, but turns out she didn't. I guess as a person I'm not really likeable. I just have money.

krupa's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:02 PM

I wouldn't know. only had one woman I thought actually liked me, but turns out she didn't. I guess as a person I'm not really likeable. I just have money.


No problem drift...if you cant be happy being straight...go bi.....

If you can't find love and happiness...just go buy it.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:04 PM
I wonder about the transposition of what they like that is not actually me, but rather their hope or a misperception.

krupa's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:07 PM
Just roll with it scoundrel....misperceptions has gotten me laid so many times that it ain't funny...not our fault that people see what they choose to see....no sense in letting someone elses false hopes spoil a good time.

ofei1's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:11 PM
I think it but I'd never ask it unless I felt the woman was totally out of my league..... For me it tends to be the the same few things ( in terms of personality/ emotions. Physically I'm (somewhat) easy to please.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:12 PM

Just roll with it scoundrel....misperceptions has gotten me laid so many times that it ain't funny...not our fault that people see what they choose to see....no sense in letting someone elses false hopes spoil a good time.


true.
fulfillment of hopes should be so easy.
thanks.drinker

feralcatlady's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:13 PM
Edited by feralcatlady on Sun 11/09/08 03:15 PM
I frankly don't care.....I am who I am, I am secure with who I am......I love everyone, if you don't like me...oh well your loss.


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh





(((((((((goof))))))))))))))) my sugar plum love bug....


:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

msmyka's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:20 PM
Edited by msmyka on Sun 11/09/08 03:21 PM

Not necessarily in terms of "he/she is too good for me" but perhaps " I wonder what quality I posess that this person is attracted to"...
Wondering if its just me


Not just you. I wonder all the time rofl

I know I have good qualities but I also have a nack for being sort of a feisty pain in the ass, I make inappropriate jokes/comments along with other miscellaneous relationship faux pas. What I wonder about is if the person values my good qualities enough to disregard the more undesirable traits I possess.

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