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Do you always tell others to NOT message or IM you when you are not interested in them either as a friend or more? Or do you either ignore or string them on when they try to contact you?
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Edited by
heathersaysgobucks
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Sat 11/08/08 01:39 PM
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Honesty is the best policy, laced with some kindness.
And oh hey, Welcome to Mingle2! |
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No, I just say not interested. I might be a little slow in responding to e-mails. As for IM's most women aren't that pushy.
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Do you always tell others to NOT message or IM you when you are not interested in them either as a friend or more? Or do you either ignore or string them on when they try to contact you? I send a short note.. "thank you for your interest.. however, I do not think we would be compatable. I wish you the best of luck in your continued search." - it is the appropriate thing to do, as we all have feelings and should be treated with dignity and respect. |
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I honestly state that I am only looking for friends...and welcome
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Edited by
quiet_2008
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Sat 11/08/08 02:10 PM
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Do you always tell others to NOT message or IM you when you are not interested in them either as a friend or more? Or do you either ignore or string them on when they try to contact you? I tell EVERYONE not to IM me. and when they do it anyway I ignore em and the same applies to people who send me friends invites when I don't know em |
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Thanks for the welcome Kim and Heather. I am just trying to understand how the community functions.
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Do you always tell others to NOT message or IM you when you are not interested in them either as a friend or more? Or do you either ignore or string them on when they try to contact you? I tell EVERYONE not to IM me. and when they do it anyway I ignore em and the same applies to people who send me friends invites when I don't know em i think exactly the same. i have written in my profile that i'm not interested in random IM's with people that i don't know. if someone hasn't bothered to read my profile and sends them anyway, then i'm not really the rude one who ignores them, am i? it's them who are being rude. |
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Do you always tell others to NOT message or IM you when you are not interested in them either as a friend or more? Or do you either ignore or string them on when they try to contact you? I tell EVERYONE not to IM me. and when they do it anyway I ignore em and the same applies to people who send me friends invites when I don't know em i think exactly the same. i have written in my profile that i'm not interested in random IM's with people that i don't know. if someone hasn't bothered to read my profile and sends them anyway, then i'm not really the rude one who ignores them, am i? it's them who are being rude. |
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Do you always tell others to NOT message or IM you when you are not interested in them either as a friend or more? Or do you either ignore or string them on when they try to contact you? I tell EVERYONE not to IM me. and when they do it anyway I ignore em and the same applies to people who send me friends invites when I don't know em i think exactly the same. i have written in my profile that i'm not interested in random IM's with people that i don't know. if someone hasn't bothered to read my profile and sends them anyway, then i'm not really the rude one who ignores them, am i? it's them who are being rude. you'll find light in the forums, and humor, and sarcasm, and friends, and maybe just maybe lovers |
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From your mouth to gods ears. Appreciate the input folks.
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