Topic: I loved you, you made me, hate me. You gave me, hate, see?
FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 11/06/08 07:34 PM
Why is that most conversations that lean to conform an individual into a "better" overall view by society start with "I'm only trying to help/I'm doing this because I love you"? This may just be me but usually this is directed towards my outward punk style of clothing and hair, and the ideal that I may hold is completly unaccounted for...

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Thu 11/06/08 07:36 PM
Certain hairstyles/clothing would not go well at the office. I hate conformity. But apparantly the people who sign your pay cheques do.....noway

izzie's photo
Thu 11/06/08 07:37 PM
its ok.. i love ya fear.. and i dont know your outward punk style..
flowerforyou

eunice49508's photo
Thu 11/06/08 07:37 PM
"Be who you are
and say what you feel;
those that mind, don't matter
and those that matter, don't mind."
-Dr Seuss

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 11/06/08 07:39 PM

Certain hairstyles/clothing would not go well at the office. I hate conformity. But apparantly the people who sign your pay cheques do.....noway


This has nothing to do with my job...

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 11/06/08 07:40 PM
Probably because some where along the line they have tried to do the counter culture thing and knows it gets to be a real drag after a while. Ot lost someone they really love because they didn't fit the traditional mold and they just couldn't hang after enough abuse.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 11/06/08 07:47 PM

Probably because some where along the line they have tried to do the counter culture thing and knows it gets to be a real drag after a while. Ot lost someone they really love because they didn't fit the traditional mold and they just couldn't hang after enough abuse.


Good insight...I don't follow the road of counter culture (at least I don't think I do). I just stand out moreso then those around me, I wear my hair up in spikes and wear plaid pants. What I'm wondering is why do people tell someone like myself that we shouldn't dress how we're comfortable or do our hair up in a style that is different from the typical daily found hairstyles? As well as where this style (outside of work) in some way means that I will probably not be successful?

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Thu 11/06/08 08:30 PM


Probably because some where along the line they have tried to do the counter culture thing and knows it gets to be a real drag after a while. Ot lost someone they really love because they didn't fit the traditional mold and they just couldn't hang after enough abuse.


Good insight...I don't follow the road of counter culture (at least I don't think I do). I just stand out moreso then those around me, I wear my hair up in spikes and wear plaid pants. What I'm wondering is why do people tell someone like myself that we shouldn't dress how we're comfortable or do our hair up in a style that is different from the typical daily found hairstyles? As well as where this style (outside of work) in some way means that I will probably not be successful?
Ok who is saying this to you and in what context??? Is it your mom???? Cause moms do that....my hair was never perfect....my clothes were too flashy.....I wasnt tall enough or skinny enough....can you believe that????

kaadeshka's photo
Thu 11/06/08 08:36 PM



Probably because some where along the line they have tried to do the counter culture thing and knows it gets to be a real drag after a while. Ot lost someone they really love because they didn't fit the traditional mold and they just couldn't hang after enough abuse.


Good insight...I don't follow the road of counter culture (at least I don't think I do). I just stand out moreso then those around me, I wear my hair up in spikes and wear plaid pants. What I'm wondering is why do people tell someone like myself that we shouldn't dress how we're comfortable or do our hair up in a style that is different from the typical daily found hairstyles? As well as where this style (outside of work) in some way means that I will probably not be successful?
Ok who is saying this to you and in what context??? Is it your mom???? Cause moms do that....my hair was never perfect....my clothes were too flashy.....I wasnt tall enough or skinny enough....can you believe that????


Wow! No offense but your mom sounds like a bag. Mine did not like my fluorescent green hair...Or the dark red-brown I eventually died it to cover it up. But lets not hate on the parental units!

ArtGurl's photo
Thu 11/06/08 08:41 PM
Hollywood Undead huh?

ArtGurl's photo
Thu 11/06/08 08:41 PM
Edited by ArtGurl on Thu 11/06/08 08:41 PM
oops double post

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Thu 11/06/08 08:51 PM




Probably because some where along the line they have tried to do the counter culture thing and knows it gets to be a real drag after a while. Ot lost someone they really love because they didn't fit the traditional mold and they just couldn't hang after enough abuse.


Good insight...I don't follow the road of counter culture (at least I don't think I do). I just stand out moreso then those around me, I wear my hair up in spikes and wear plaid pants. What I'm wondering is why do people tell someone like myself that we shouldn't dress how we're comfortable or do our hair up in a style that is different from the typical daily found hairstyles? As well as where this style (outside of work) in some way means that I will probably not be successful?
Ok who is saying this to you and in what context??? Is it your mom???? Cause moms do that....my hair was never perfect....my clothes were too flashy.....I wasnt tall enough or skinny enough....can you believe that????


Wow! No offense but your mom sounds like a bag. Mine did not like my fluorescent green hair...Or the dark red-brown I eventually died it to cover it up. But lets not hate on the parental units!
I was never good enough.....after awhile I just started colouring my hair purple and blue and dating men who were bad for me. Bad boys!!! Ive been blonde for awhile now.....normal? good enough? I dunno......

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 11/06/08 09:30 PM



Probably because some where along the line they have tried to do the counter culture thing and knows it gets to be a real drag after a while. Ot lost someone they really love because they didn't fit the traditional mold and they just couldn't hang after enough abuse.


Good insight...I don't follow the road of counter culture (at least I don't think I do). I just stand out moreso then those around me, I wear my hair up in spikes and wear plaid pants. What I'm wondering is why do people tell someone like myself that we shouldn't dress how we're comfortable or do our hair up in a style that is different from the typical daily found hairstyles? As well as where this style (outside of work) in some way means that I will probably not be successful?
Ok who is saying this to you and in what context??? Is it your mom???? Cause moms do that....my hair was never perfect....my clothes were too flashy.....I wasnt tall enough or skinny enough....can you believe that????


Actually for the most part it is my dad, my mum doesn't mind it...my dad is a military brat...probably explains it, huh?

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 11/06/08 09:31 PM

Hollywood Undead huh?


Yes it is.smokin