My ex invited me out to eat with him.. specifically as friends... i havent spoke with him in a few months so this is kind of out of the blue

yeah and your point is an ex invited you to something and then...what

Don't do it Pinky...he only wants one thing...be strong...if you need it I'm here for you...LOL

Do it

Right....just as friends....wanna get back together with him?????? Think about it.

you should go ... give it to him RREALLLY good and just walk out and never talk to him again.. lol

Just the fact that you are taking time and energy to mull it over, could mean you really dont wanna do this.

Do you want to go? are you ready to be just friends? do you want to see him and most importantly- is he paying for dinner?

Go if you want to and have a good time- no expectations and who knows? maybe great conversation.

If you want to be friends with him, go for it.

Sounds like the Ex is maybe a bit horny :P..thats why he wants to meet out of the blue.(I am 99.9% sure..and I don't even know the dude, but umm I know guys pretty well:P).unless u are horny too, and are looking to hook up for a night..(cuz thats all it will prolly be, a quick fix, cuz he is bumming around single, or his girlfriend is not giving him any..) i would not meet up w/ him sweety.

I don't think he's looking to get laid by you. There's probably something much more that you have that he want's. Maybe he lost his place and want's to live off of you. Money spent on you initially, is just an investment in what he may be looking to gain. Don't be fooled!!!!!!!!! Stay very far away from him. It's called damage controll gurl.

I dont want to say he's a perv... because he's not.. The 6 months that we were dating.... we never had sex.. He was a sweet heart... but he reminded me too much like my dad.... looks & personality wise... which is why i eventually broke it off with him... the feelings were just not there

What you do is ultimately up to you.

No chemistry? WOW...I hear ya there...I think you should think hard about it and maybe be as up front and HONEST w/ him and tell him how you really feel..I think HONESTY is the best policy..(my opinion of course) Good luck hun..

Go to dinner, make sure he pays the bill and say good night.........

Ok I will take back that he wants to get laid part (he is an exception, to the exception of the rule then...6 months -No Sex? Most guys would like die of "Blue Balls".lol)..mmm..well, if you are not into him, don't meet up w/ him...cuz
a.) that would be leading him on, the "just as friends" is a cover-up..he wants more physical or emotional,

and

b.) Since you are obviously not feeling the same way, let it be, he will get over it and don't waste your time, thats a chapter in your book that has been read, and now it's time to move on.
You don't need all that drama.

Don't go. This is a "lurking topic" date. There's a reason for "out of the blue" stuff. IMO