Topic: What constituent a date.
franshade's photo
Fri 11/07/08 09:43 AM


Just getting the feel of what the social world calls it. Had one last nightnoway noway scared scared
She kept calling it a date. it was just to talk and a drink. after it was over I needed a few drinksslaphead slaphead drinker drinker
yep. I (stupidly) let my bf introduce me to one of her friends last weekend. To me it was just meeting the guy, apparently to him it was the dawn of a new era. He listed every possession he has & felt inspired to give me life advice, without benefit of knowing anything about my life. My bf just texted me, he called her and asked where we're meeting tonight...???? Um, there's a reason he doesn't have my number, email, or LAST NAME. Creepy. scared


you go pyro - those are special ones - the ones that offer unsolicited advice and swear on whatever they believe in that they are right.

What are you going to have your b/f reply?


Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:20 AM


Just getting the feel of what the social world calls it. Had one last nightnoway noway scared scared
She kept calling it a date. it was just to talk and a drink. after it was over I needed a few drinksslaphead slaphead drinker drinker
yep. I (stupidly) let my bf introduce me to one of her friends last weekend. To me it was just meeting the guy, apparently to him it was the dawn of a new era. He listed every possession he has & felt inspired to give me life advice, without benefit of knowing anything about my life. My bf just texted me, he called her and asked where we're meeting tonight...???? Um, there's a reason he doesn't have my number, email, or LAST NAME. Creepy. scared

laugh laugh laugh Ok let's have drink and compare them. hahahha Oh by the way it won't be a datelaugh laugh Just a social drink:banana:

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:22 AM

yep. I (stupidly) let my bff introduce me to one of her friends last weekend. To me it was just meeting the guy, apparently to him it was the dawn of a new era. He listed every possession he has & felt inspired to give me life advice, without benefit of knowing anything about my life. My bff just texted me, he called her and asked where we're meeting tonight...???? Um, there's a reason he doesn't have my number, email, or LAST NAME. Creepy. scared


Ummm, pyro..... we need to double date. I meet some winners too! I adjusted bf to bff, as bf is boyfriend...:tongue:

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Fri 11/07/08 10:24 AM

Just getting the feel of what the social world calls it. Had one last nightnoway noway scared scared
She kept calling it a date. it was just to talk and a drink. after it was over I needed a few drinksslaphead slaphead drinker drinker
Then it was a date!!!!laugh laugh laugh

Ive had that where the guy called it a date and I just thought I was going out with a friend???huh noway

Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:33 AM


Just getting the feel of what the social world calls it. Had one last nightnoway noway scared scared
She kept calling it a date. it was just to talk and a drink. after it was over I needed a few drinksslaphead slaphead drinker drinker
Then it was a date!!!!laugh laugh laugh

Ive had that where the guy called it a date and I just thought I was going out with a friend???huh noway

she called it one,noway not I it was just drinks.drinker drinker

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Fri 11/07/08 10:38 AM
Ok so how are we supposed to know if its a date or not???? Should I bother to shave my legs??? wear deodorant???noway

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:39 AM

Ok so how are we supposed to know if its a date or not???? Should I bother to shave my legs??? wear deodorant???noway


Gypsy... I shave my legs if I feel like nookie... and I always wear deodorant because we Americans are obsessed with it. laugh

franshade's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:40 AM

Ok so how are we supposed to know if its a date or not???? Should I bother to shave my legs??? wear deodorant???noway


rofl

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Fri 11/07/08 10:41 AM
What is this thing called meet and greet??? meet for drinks isnt a date???? I thought dating someone was trying to get to know them....so a meet for drinks would be a date...maybe not a long one but still would be a date of some kind.


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Fri 11/07/08 10:43 AM
We Canadians like deodorant too.......sometimes I put it on just because its fun!!!bigsmile

Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:43 AM

Ok so how are we supposed to know if its a date or not???? Should I bother to shave my legs??? wear deodorant???noway

that is optional, are going to wear shortsdrool

franshade's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:48 AM

We Canadians like deodorant too.......sometimes I put it on just because its fun!!!bigsmile


and smells purty too

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Fri 11/07/08 10:51 AM


Ok so how are we supposed to know if its a date or not???? Should I bother to shave my legs??? wear deodorant???noway

that is optional, are going to wear shortsdrool
I always wear my yellow bathing suit on dates!!! Oooooooops its was just drinks!!! So I guess I cant wear it!!! Too bad!!!devil bigsmile

Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:52 AM

We Canadians like deodorant too.......sometimes I put it on just because its fun!!!bigsmile

yea it is called beer

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Fri 11/07/08 10:56 AM
Beer??? No thats our spanish fly!!!drinker devil

Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 10:57 AM

Beer??? No thats our spanish fly!!!drinker devil

can I playdevil devil

franshade's photo
Fri 11/07/08 11:01 AM
got it finally got it

if it goes well - it's a date
if it doesnt go well - its a waste

:banana: I knew it would come to me

Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 11:07 AM



Ok so how are we supposed to know if its a date or not???? Should I bother to shave my legs??? wear deodorant???noway

that is optional, are going to wear shortsdrool
I always wear my yellow bathing suit on dates!!! Oooooooops its was just drinks!!! So I guess I cant wear it!!! Too bad!!!devil bigsmile

well now if you are wearing that with out deorant and unshaved legs then it is a date for sure:banana: :banana: :banana: drool drool

Mrtap's photo
Fri 11/07/08 11:13 AM
have fun got go.drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 11/07/08 11:58 AM
I am begining to think the whole concept of dateing is dead never to be reborn.

I hear one more moron say what do you want to do and expect me to plan the date I am going to scream. Especially after wasteing hours blabbering about their life story.

There doesn't seem to be any fun dates anymore. I see guys work, do the the domestic stuff, and a few will ride their precious motercycles but none of them seem to know there is anything to do. They can't tell you anything going on at the convention centers, don't know what movies are playing, can't find a place to dance, don't even know where local attractions are. Amazes me have their hands on a keyboard and can't look anything up.

Maybe it is the vesting process but I don't call standing on the auction block to see if I measure up a date. If you can't be man enough to actually get through and activity with a woman why should I knock myself out. The whole go to starbucks and let me lay eyes on you is ridiculous. Are people blind? Don't most people have pictures? Or at least exchange them before they meet? What is this interogation thing on the first date thing? I can't believe people have to ask your life history just to spend a couple of hours together. Or tell you theirs. Geezz get a therapist.

I don't see how meeting at a bar and watching the guy get drunk and smoke, go to the casino and watch some idiot trow more money than I live on for a month down a slot machine, and the can I come over and layaround while you cook and provide a video I am too cheap to buy can be called a date. Or my personal favorite the one where you actually go to a resturant and all they do is whine about how much the meal costs, or they could cook it better, and can they take the leftovers home for their lunch tomorrow and don't leave a tip because they have to pay too much to the third ex-wife. I feel like sending some of these guys a bill. LOL sorry for the rant! Can you guess which kind of date I had this week. lol